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Title: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Anchorman on May 05, 2019, 09:41:41 PM
       On another forum, I  came across  a thread whose originator was concerned regarding archaeologist's treatment of the remains of the ancient dead, and suggesting they remain in situ, their graves or tombs undisturbed, as modern archaeology was a violation of their sanctity, and displaying human remains in museums an act of immorality at best,sacrilege at worst. Not a new idea,I know; but still one which stirs emotions and controversy in quite a few circles. Should we store human remains in university or museum, or return them to their place of burial, if practical?
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Roses on May 06, 2019, 08:16:55 AM
I am not in the least bit sentimental about dead bodies, which I regard as waste products, if they can be put to good use after death I am all for it.
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Anchorman on May 06, 2019, 08:57:32 AM
 So you don't think human remains should be treated i any way different from those of animals?
Should the cultural, religious or other ethos be take into account when either handling or displaying individuals?
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Roses on May 06, 2019, 09:08:21 AM
So you don't think human remains should be treated i any way different from those of animals?
Should the cultural, religious or other ethos be take into account when either handling or displaying individuals?


Absolutely not, we are animals too.
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Anchorman on May 06, 2019, 09:35:55 AM

Absolutely not, we are animals too.
   



      I remember when, in 1980, as a student, I was part of a team given intimate access to the mummy room in the Cairo museum, before they revamped it.
We were given soft brushes, and the display cases which had covered the mummies of certain individuals from the two cache tombs - DB320 and KV 35 - were removed.
Our task was to brush dust from the faces of the dead kings,and try to remove mould which, because of the conditions in the Cairo, had accumulated.
I was acutely conscious that this was no artefact, no museum exhibit; this was a man, who had been born, lived and died. The fact that he had been a king - Ramesses III - and had lived over three thousand years earlier -  did not seem as important as the fact that this was a human being.
Surely such remains deserved some dignity?

Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: jeremyp on May 06, 2019, 10:16:58 AM
       On another forum, I  came across  a thread whose originator was concerned regarding archaeologist's treatment of the remains of the ancient dead, and suggesting they remain in situ, their graves or tombs undisturbed, as modern archaeology was a violation of their sanctity, and displaying human remains in museums an act of immorality at best,sacrilege at worst. Not a new idea,I know; but still one which stirs emotions and controversy in quite a few circles. Should we store human remains in university or museum, or return them to their place of burial, if practical?
They are just bones. I’d say the quest for human knowledge outweighs superstitious respect for old bones that are no longer in use by their original owner.
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Walter on May 06, 2019, 02:07:21 PM
They are just bones. I’d say the quest for human knowledge outweighs superstitious respect for old bones that are no longer in use by their original owner.

if the bones of any of my dead relatives were being 'messed about with' I think I would be rather angry about that.
Once enough time had passed, then that would be a different   matter.
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Roses on May 06, 2019, 02:15:03 PM
if the bones of any of my dead relatives were being 'messed about with' I think I would be rather angry about that.
Once enough time had passed, then that would be a different   matter.


How much time?
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Walter on May 06, 2019, 02:39:52 PM

How much time?
I left that vague to generate discussion , what do you think would be enough time LR?
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Roses on May 06, 2019, 03:08:45 PM
I left that vague to generate discussion , what do you think would be enough time LR?

Straight after death.
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Walter on May 06, 2019, 03:29:10 PM
Straight after death.
for me that would be too soon , unless it was the wish of the deceased, as in scientific research .

Btw I've got my children in mind as I type this.
 
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Roses on May 06, 2019, 03:43:23 PM
for me that would be too soon , unless it was the wish of the deceased, as in scientific research .

Btw I've got my children in mind as I type this.


I hope my children/grandchildren don't go before me, but if they do I would not be sentimental about their mortal remains.
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Walter on May 06, 2019, 03:57:04 PM

I hope my children/grandchildren don't go before me, but if they do I would not be sentimental about their mortal remains.
I must be more sentimental than you then where my kids are concerned , however that does not extend to other peoples' kids , just mine .
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: jeremyp on May 06, 2019, 07:42:25 PM

How much time?

When there's nobody left alive who knew them personally would be the lower limit. You could add a generation or two for a margin of error, if you like.
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Walter on May 06, 2019, 10:00:19 PM
When there's nobody left alive who knew them personally would be the lower limit. You could add a generation or two for a margin of error, if you like.
thanks, ill do that .
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Roses on May 07, 2019, 08:41:51 AM
I must be more sentimental than you then where my kids are concerned , however that does not extend to other peoples' kids , just mine .

I don't know how one can be sentimental about a rotting corpse.
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Anchorman on May 07, 2019, 10:29:29 AM
I don't know how one can be sentimental about a rotting corpse.
   



Try being less than two inches from the face of someone who died three thousand years ago.
Look into that face; see the wrinkles, realise that this was a living, breathing individual.
Then try not to have feelings of respect.
A friend of mine, Salima Ikram, who is an acknowledged expert on the field, still freely admits to feeliung that respect, and even pathos, when examining remains.
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Roses on May 07, 2019, 10:34:54 AM
   



Try being less than two inches from the face of someone who died three thousand years ago.
Look into that face; see the wrinkles, realise that this was a living, breathing individual.
Then try not to have feelings of respect.
A friend of mine, Salima Ikram, who is an acknowledged expert on the field, still freely admits to feeliung that respect, and even pathos, when examining remains.

Why should I have respect for a corpse, I don't get it? One should have respect for a living, breathing human if they deserve respect.
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Anchorman on May 07, 2019, 10:44:22 AM
Why should I have respect for a corpse, I don't get it? One should have respect for a living, breathing human if they deserve respect.
   



No, probably you don't get it.
Yet this decaying lump of leathery flesh which still has a slightly nasty odor, combined as it is with the sweetness of the oils used to preserve it, does command respect. It was an individual, with hopes, dreams and beliefs, even if I didn't share them.
(It was also a murder victim)
Anyway, look for yourself, and then tell me.

https://www.livescience.com/25653-mummy-king-ramessess-iii.html
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Owlswing on May 07, 2019, 10:48:44 AM
   
      I remember when, in 1980, as a student, I was part of a team given intimate access to the mummy room in the Cairo museum, before they revamped it.

We were given soft brushes, and the display cases which had covered the mummies of certain individuals from the two cache tombs - DB320 and KV 35 - were removed.

Our task was to brush dust from the faces of the dead kings,and try to remove mould which, because of the conditions in the Cairo, had accumulated.

I was acutely conscious that this was no artefact, no museum exhibit; this was a man, who had been born, lived and died. The fact that he had been a king - Ramesses III - and had lived over three thousand years earlier -  did not seem as important as the fact that this was a human being.

Surely such remains deserved some dignity?


Remains is, I think, the important word here.

What made the man the important person here was is no longer there, what made him him has moved on to greener pastures.

Define 'dignity' in this respect - I would suggest that in a place like the Cairo Museum such remains would receive more respect than anywhere else.

The disrespect was perpetrated by those who treated the tombs as a source of wealth.
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Roses on May 07, 2019, 10:52:48 AM
   



No, probably you don't get it.
Yet this decaying lump of leathery flesh which still has a slightly nasty odor, combined as it is with the sweetness of the oils used to preserve it, does command respect. It was an individual, with hopes, dreams and beliefs, even if I didn't share them.
(It was also a murder victim)
Anyway, look for yourself, and then tell me.

https://www.livescience.com/25653-mummy-king-ramessess-iii.html


YUCK, that is a ghastly sight.

I have had quite a lot of contact with corpses having laid out quite a few, during the nine months in 1968 I had nursing training imposed on me, before I kicked it into touch. It was no big deal, once a person is dead, end of story, imo.
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Anchorman on May 07, 2019, 10:58:39 AM
Yes. After all, the state stripped the royal dead of all the valuables around 1000 BC. To have left them in their makeshift resting places would have meant leaving them to the less than tender mercies of tomb robbers. After all, the DB320 cache was only discovered after certain funerary artefacts started appearing on the antiquities market...the then archaeologists had to risk life and limb to rescue the mummies from a tomb robbig gang. The modern display cases in the Cairo are hermetically sealed, climate controlled. The mummies rest o sterile sand covered trays, and only their heads and feet are exposed to public view. Nowadays, photographing these mummies is prohibited out of respect.
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Owlswing on May 07, 2019, 10:58:59 AM

I don't know how one can be sentimental about a rotting corpse.


The 'rotting corpses', as you put it are not the object of the sentimentality. It is the memories of the living person that has become the 'rotting corpse'.

When you look at the 'rotting corpse' you are not seeing the corpse, you are seeing the grandfather who always had a sweet hidden for the time when he didn't agree with the reason your parents were refusing you a sweet; the granma who made the most magnificent toffee, a sister who you held in you seven year old arms two days before she became a two-week-old rotting corpse!

You LR, must have a heart of stone and I wonder how your family that you leave behind will view your 'rotting corpse'.
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Roses on May 07, 2019, 11:45:21 AM
The 'rotting corpses', as you put it are not the object of the sentimentality. It is the memories of the living person that has become the 'rotting corpse'.

When you look at the 'rotting corpse' you are not seeing the corpse, you are seeing the grandfather who always had a sweet hidden for the time when he didn't agree with the reason your parents were refusing you a sweet; the granma who made the most magnificent toffee, a sister who you held in you seven year old arms two days before she became a two-week-old rotting corpse!

You LR, must have a heart of stone and I wonder how your family that you leave behind will view your 'rotting corpse'.


I wish to remember a person as how they were in life, not as a corpse, which is why I have never seen any  relative once they are dead. I have only attended one funeral relating to my family that of my father in 2005. I didn't attend my mother's funeral six years ago.
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Samuel on May 07, 2019, 02:00:16 PM
The way human remains are treated is entirely contextual. I don't think there are hard and fast rules. Any group whose history has been left unrecorded, been erased or includes a lot of persecution are likely to feel much more strongly about human remains that are directly relevent to them. I have native american indians in mind here but really its any group with a cultrual history similarly defined by loss. What if a mass grave of murdered african slaves was discovered? should they be treated as assets for the museum sector? What about the horrific story of the Tuam babies in Ireland? should we not bother with them?

I don't say human remains should always be treated as 'sacred' but the decision about that is highly nuanced and relates to the nature of the remains, their context, the circumstances of the death, the historical age... etc, etc.

Another example... here in Dorset a few years back a mass grave of vikings was discovered during the building of a road. They had all been publically beheaded very much in some sort of intentional legal or ceremonial setting. This happened roughly 700 years ago. The story of these young men is vaugue, and no one is exactly sure what motivated their deaths, but it was a gruesome act and a chilling fate. Now, those remains all went on display, and some still are. But there is still a recognition that the way they are described and their stories interpreted needs to be sensitive to the fact that these people are related to the national history of another country and another culture.

Reducing it to sentimentality is a rather serious underestimation of the importance of these things to people and the role human remains and their associated stories play in continually feeding into a shared sense of heritage, culture and identity.

Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Owlswing on May 07, 2019, 06:44:03 PM

I wish to remember a person as how they were in life, not as a corpse, which is why I have never seen any  relative once they are dead. I have only attended one funeral relating to my family that of my father in 2005. I didn't attend my mother's funeral six years ago.


I have never, yet, seen a rotting corpse at a funeral which, with the greatest regret, amoung my family and circle of friends are becoming ever more frequent.

I'm sorry but your attitude, as you describe it here, seems nonsense to me.
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: jeremyp on May 07, 2019, 07:19:32 PM
I don't know how one can be sentimental about a rotting corpse.
I'm not sentimental about corpses. But a lot of people are, particularly when the corpse used to be somebody they loved (and I don't really understand it either, but I do recognise that people can get quite distressed about such things). That's why I suggested the limit that I did.
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Roses on May 08, 2019, 08:35:21 AM
I have never, yet, seen a rotting corpse at a funeral which, with the greatest regret, amoung my family and circle of friends are becoming ever more frequent.

I'm sorry but your attitude, as you describe it here, seems nonsense to me.


We are all different, I will do things my way, as no doubt you will do it yours.
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Robbie on May 08, 2019, 01:36:11 PM
Yes, we all deal with things differently and shouldn't criticise.
I saw my dead mum in January last year and my dad in March this year, I didn't think of either as rotting corpses, they were both neat and tidy, looked peaceful and were the remains of my much loved parents.  My lovely in laws are now tottery, especially mum and a much loved uncle (dad's younger brother) and his wife, my aunt.  The important thing is they are precious right now.  However I understand people preferring to remember people when they were alive - we do that anyway, don't we?

Edited for a spelling, I put 'dead' instead of 'dad'.
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Roses on May 08, 2019, 02:15:00 PM
Yes, we all deal with things differently and shouldn't criticise.
I saw my dead mum in January last year and my dead in March this year, I didn't think of either as rotting corpses, they were both neat and tidy, looked peaceful and were the remains of my much loved parents.  My lovely in laws are now tottery, especially mum and a much loved uncle (dad's younger brother) and his wife, my aunt.  The important thing is they are precious right now.  However I understand people preferring to remember people when they were alive - we do that anyway, don't we?


The only family funeral I have attended was that of my father in 2005. It was the nearest thing to a state funeral I will attend, he had been senior politician, even the Queen sent a representative. I was expected to be there as the eldest child and chief mourner, my mother didn't count in that respect. The main thing I remember about that day was his coffin being put in the grave and his youngest brother attempting to photo it, my youngest sister snatched the camera off him. STUPID MAN!  >:( My father wanted a cremation but my mother had insisted on a burial, no doubt so she could carry on their spats when she got dumped on top of him. We let her have her way, even though it was my decision and that of my siblings to make. She also wanted a posh headstone, which cost £6,000. I went absolutely ballistic when I visited the grave on a visit to the island a year later and checked out the headstone to see if it was worth the money. My mother had placed a pot of artificial flowers on the grave. My father was a horticulturalist and grew flowers, he would have been disgusted. I dumped the pot in the nearest bin.  >:(
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Robbie on May 08, 2019, 02:28:44 PM
I understand your attitude even better now L,R, a sad unpleasant business.  Artificial flowers indeed for a horticulturalist.  All in the past now.
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Roses on May 08, 2019, 02:57:05 PM
I understand your attitude even better now L,R, a sad unpleasant business.  Artificial flowers indeed for a horticulturalist.  All in the past now.


Yep all in the past, both my parents are now dead.
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: ad_orientem on May 12, 2019, 12:19:45 AM
       On another forum, I  came across  a thread whose originator was concerned regarding archaeologist's treatment of the remains of the ancient dead, and suggesting they remain in situ, their graves or tombs undisturbed, as modern archaeology was a violation of their sanctity, and displaying human remains in museums an act of immorality at best,sacrilege at worst. Not a new idea,I know; but still one which stirs emotions and controversy in quite a few circles. Should we store human remains in university or museum, or return them to their place of burial, if practical?

I'm generally of the opinion that we should not interfere with the dead. In the case of archeology, let it do it's bit, then let the remains rest in peace with dignity, not as a show piece.
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Anchorman on May 12, 2019, 09:11:10 AM
I'm generally of the opinion that we should not interfere with the dead. In the case of archeology, let it do it's bit, then let the remains rest in peace with dignity, not as a show piece.
     

Where?
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Roses on May 13, 2019, 12:24:24 PM
I'm generally of the opinion that we should not interfere with the dead. In the case of archeology, let it do it's bit, then let the remains rest in peace with dignity, not as a show piece.

Human remains, which are waste products, don't rest in peace anymore than does the garbage we put in our rubbish bin. ::)
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: SusanDoris on May 14, 2019, 06:49:44 AM
Human remains, which are waste products, don't rest in peace anymore than does the garbage we put in our rubbish bin. ::)
I do agree with you, LR. Sensitivity to people's feelings when it comes to people dying is needed, but it doesn't have to include untruths.
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Roses on May 14, 2019, 08:38:26 AM
I do agree with you, LR. Sensitivity to people's feelings when it comes to people dying is needed, but it doesn't have to include untruths.


Obviously one should respect the feelings of those who are grieving over the death of a loved one, that goes without saying. However, it is important to respect the wishes of those who have died about the disposal of their remains. I wish my siblings and I had respected our father's wishes and had him cremated, instead of giving into our mother who wanted him buried with a posh headstone, which cost £6000. She could boast about it to people. >:(
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Robbie on May 14, 2019, 08:56:49 AM
The only way to look at it LR is that it hasn't done your father any harm, he's at peace regardless. The £6,000 could probably have been better spent but what's done is done and anyway that amount of money doesn't go that far.
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Roses on May 14, 2019, 09:20:14 AM
The only way to look at it LR is that it hasn't done your father any harm, he's at peace regardless. The £6,000 could probably have been better spent but what's done is done and anyway that amount of money doesn't go that far.


I doubt he would be at  peace knowing our mother was dumped on top of him, the last thing he would have wanted. But they are dead and gone now, end of story.
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Steve H on May 17, 2019, 05:54:38 AM
I think human remains should always be treated with respect, though I don't think that precludes putting ancient mummies on display in museums. I don't know whether archaeologists have a code of conduct about dealing with human remains - I'd guess that they do.
A former vicar of mine, who went to a parish on the Isle of Wight after leaving us, told of an Anglo-Saxon burial site in his parish which was discovered during building work. The skeletons had to be moved, and he and others, after determining from the dates that the dead had been Christians, not pagans, devised a short reburial service, which incuded a recital of the Lord's prayer in Anglo-Saxon. People found it very moving, apparently, and I can believe it.
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Steve H on May 17, 2019, 05:57:00 AM
   



Try being less than two inches from the face of someone who died three thousand years ago.
Look into that face; see the wrinkles, realise that this was a living, breathing individual.
Then try not to have feelings of respect.
A friend of mine, Salima Ikram, who is an acknowledged expert on the field, still freely admits to feeliung that respect, and even pathos, when examining remains.
Quite. It is not "sentiment", LR, it is natural respect.
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Anchorman on May 17, 2019, 08:36:01 AM
I think human remains should always be treated with respect, though I don't think that precludes putting ancient mummies on display in museums. I don't know whether archaeologists have a code of conduct about dealing with human remains - I'd guess that they do.
A former vicar of mine, who went to a parish on the Isle of Wight after leaving us, told of an Anglo-Saxon burial site in his parish which was discovered during building work. The skeletons had to be moved, and he and others, after determining from the dates that the dead had been Christians, not pagans, devised a short reburial service, which incuded a recital of the Lord's prayer in Anglo-Saxon. People found it very moving, apparently, and I can believe it.
 

     Something similar happened a couple of years back near the 'Candida Casa', the original 'White House' in Galloway,site of the earliest Christian site in Scotland, predating Iona by a few decades.
A local minister and RC priest conducted a simple reburial of the remains which had been examined and returned to the site.
Mind you, both tied their tongues in knots trying to pronounce some of the Brythonic words.
The blend of prayer, poetry and the sounds of sea, gull,curlew and in the distance, geese, was very atmospheric,especially given the fact that the Celtic tradition equated the wild Goose as symbolising the Holy Spirit....they had little concept of what a dove was.

Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Roses on May 20, 2019, 08:22:38 AM
The living don't need to look after the dead, but those who are still breathing.
Title: Re: Let the living look after the dead?
Post by: Roses on May 22, 2019, 08:43:06 AM
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-48359571

Washington State is the first US state to legalise human composting. I think it is a great idea, I am not sure if it is done here in the UK? Maybe we should put dead bodies in the garden waste bin. ;D