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Religion and Ethics Discussion => Christian Topic => Topic started by: Nearly Sane on May 28, 2024, 09:08:02 AM

Title: Pope allegedly used derogatory term for gay people
Post by: Nearly Sane on May 28, 2024, 09:08:02 AM

'When asked at the Italian Bishops’ Conference if gay men should now be allowed to train for the priesthood as long as they remained celibate, Pope Francis said they should not.'

Laughable on many levels


https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cpvvyxr79glo
Title: Re: Pope allegedly used derogatory term for gay people
Post by: Aruntraveller on May 28, 2024, 09:27:25 AM
They've not really got a handle on what some of their priests are, have they?

Or just in denial?

Or maybe going for plausible deniability?
Title: Re: Pope allegedly used derogatory term for gay people
Post by: Nearly Sane on May 28, 2024, 12:04:04 PM
They've not really got a handle on what some of their priests are, have they?

Or just in denial?

Or maybe going for plausible deniability?

Friend of mine, many years ago, was struggling to come to terms with being gay. He decided, as was and is not unknown, to become a priest. He got sent to Scots College in Rome, and on getting off the plane, realised there might be an issue, since his 'type' was Italian looking men.

A few weeks into his time there, he went to see his spiritual advisor, and managed to communicate something of the issue. The advisor said that they understand the problem from on a personal level, and gave the advice that at moments of temptation to walk barefoot on cold marble floors.

My friend is just about to retire from a long career in the NHS/Civil Service.
Title: Re: Pope allegedly used derogatory term for gay people
Post by: Nearly Sane on May 28, 2024, 03:05:21 PM
Well he's apologised for the slur but the discrimination, laughable as it is in terms of the facts, is still OK.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/czrrexn0094o
Title: Re: Pope allegedly used derogatory term for gay people
Post by: Walt Zingmatilder on May 29, 2024, 06:04:41 AM
Friend of mine, many years ago, was struggling to come to terms with being gay. He decided, as was and is not unknown, to become a priest. He got sent to Scots College in Rome, and on getting off the plane, realised there might be an issue, since his 'type' was Italian looking men.

A few weeks into his time there, he went to see his spiritual advisor, and managed to communicate something of the issue. The advisor said that they understand the problem from on a personal level, and gave the advice that at moments of temptation to walk barefoot on cold marble floors.

My friend is just about to retire from a long career in the NHS/Civil Service.
There is here though, also the question of celibacy, on which your friend would not be suitable for catholic priesthood.
Title: Re: Pope allegedly used derogatory term for gay people
Post by: Nearly Sane on May 29, 2024, 07:43:39 AM
There is here though, also the question of celibacy, on which your friend would not be suitable for catholic priesthood.
  No idea what point you are trying to make.
Title: Re: Pope allegedly used derogatory term for gay people
Post by: Steve H on May 29, 2024, 10:09:53 AM
There is here though, also the question of celibacy, on which your friend would not be suitable for catholic priesthood.
Why not? Gay men can be celibate too!
Title: Re: Pope allegedly used derogatory term for gay people
Post by: Walt Zingmatilder on May 29, 2024, 10:27:02 AM
Why not? Gay men can be celibate too!
Yes. I'm not a Roman Catholic but I think NS friend may have concluded that the celibate life was not for him.

I suppose some might conclude his friend was barred for being gay, but there was the question of celibacy as well.

I don't know, was this a running out of town of a gay person by swivel eyed clerics or a gentle "We're not sure whether you would be happy with this life" sort of thing...or something in between.
Title: Re: Pope allegedly used derogatory term for gay people
Post by: Nearly Sane on May 29, 2024, 10:30:54 AM
Yes. I'm not a Roman Catholic but I think NS friend may have concluded that the celibate life was not for him.

I suppose some might conclude his friend was barred for being gay, but there was the question of celibacy as well.

I don't know, was this a running out of town of a gay person by swivel eyed clerics or a gentle "We're not sure whether you would be happy with this life" sort of thing...or something in between.
I didn't say anything about him being barred for being gay. The Pope however does want to bar gay men from becoming priests. Which is both discrimination, and idiocy given the number of priests who are and were gay, including the spiritual advisor of my friend, as indicated by my post.
Title: Re: Pope allegedly used derogatory term for gay people
Post by: Aruntraveller on May 29, 2024, 10:34:07 AM
You are missing the point a bit though. The Pope has indicated that celibacy isn't the problem as far as gay men are concerned. It is the fact that they are gay men.

Quote
When asked at the Italian Bishops’ Conference if gay men should now be allowed to train for the priesthood as long as they remained celibate, Pope Francis said they should not.'

Which is, of course, all hypocritical nonsense given the number of gay priests in the RC.
Title: Re: Pope allegedly used derogatory term for gay people
Post by: Alan Burns on May 29, 2024, 10:57:22 AM
What surprises me in all this - as a Roman Catholic I understood that sexual orientation was irrelevant for priesthood as long as they remained celibate - so why was the question ever asked?
Title: Re: Pope allegedly used derogatory term for gay people
Post by: Nearly Sane on May 29, 2024, 11:15:07 AM
What surprises me in all this - as a Roman Catholic I understood that sexual orientation was irrelevant for priesthood as long as they remained celibate - so why was the question ever asked?
Does it matter when the Pope is disagreeing with you?
Title: Re: Pope allegedly used derogatory term for gay people
Post by: Steve H on May 29, 2024, 11:26:28 AM
Does it matter when the Pope is disagreeing with you?
I don't think Catholics are obliged to agree with everything the pope says; only with his ex cathedra statements.
Title: Re: Pope allegedly used derogatory term for gay people
Post by: Steve H on May 29, 2024, 11:30:46 AM
Worth mentioning that Cardinal Newman was gay by orientation, though certainly celibate, and he was canonised in 2019. Also Gerard Manley Hopkins.
Title: Re: Pope allegedly used derogatory term for gay people
Post by: Nearly Sane on May 29, 2024, 11:37:50 AM
I don't think Catholics are obliged to agree with everything the pope says; only with his ex cathedra statements.
I didn't say they were. And in this case, I agree with Alan. I don't think it was ever an issue, indeed, as per your examples it was 'understood'.
Title: Re: Pope allegedly used derogatory term for gay people
Post by: Aruntraveller on June 02, 2024, 08:47:51 AM
Evidence, as if it were needed, as to why the RC Church is in such a mess on this issue:

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c2995x14r85o

Title: Re: Pope allegedly used derogatory term for gay people
Post by: Nearly Sane on June 03, 2024, 01:55:08 PM
Evidence, as if it were needed, as to why the RC Church is in such a mess on this issue:

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c2995x14r85o
Wondering what Alan Burns thinks about his disagreement with the Pope, and this homophobia?
Title: Re: Pope allegedly used derogatory term for gay people
Post by: Alan Burns on June 04, 2024, 09:14:55 AM
Wondering what Alan Burns thinks about his disagreement with the Pope, and this homophobia?
I am not alone in being in disagreement with the Pope's recent communications on this.  There is deep concern throughout the RC church that the pope appears to be failing to endorse the biblical teachings on the sinful nature of homosexual behaviour (not to be confused with homosexual orientation).  The bible is quite clear that all sexual practice outside marriage is sinful - and the sacrament of marriage is between one man and one woman.  It is a very dangerous and slippery slope to start re interpreting the bible to fit in with modern popular culture.  Jesus was not influenced by popular opinion.
Title: Re: Pope allegedly used derogatory term for gay people
Post by: Nearly Sane on June 04, 2024, 09:17:11 AM
I am not alone in being in disagreement with the Pope's recent communications on this.  There is deep concern throughout the RC church that the pope appears to be failing to endorse the biblical teachings on the sinful nature of homosexual behaviour (not to be confused with homosexual orientation).  The bible is quite clear that all sexual practice outside marriage is sinful - and the sacrament of marriage is between one man and one woman.  It is a very dangerous and slippery slope to start re interpreting the bible to fit in with modern popular culture.  Jesus was not influenced by popular opinion.
And yet in saying that gay people can't become priests he appears to be even more homophobic than you in that regard.
Title: Re: Pope allegedly used derogatory term for gay people
Post by: Harrowby Hall on August 25, 2024, 09:38:04 PM
You are missing the point a bit though. The Pope has indicated that celibacy isn't the problem as far as gay men are concerned. It is the fact that they are gay men.

Which is, of course, all hypocritical nonsense given the number of gay priests in the RC.

I think that everyone in this discussion is missing the point.  When the Pope uses the term celibacy he means "unmarried". It is a feature of English usage that has resulted in the term being used to mean "avoidance of sex". The RC Church is very clear about the difference between celibacy and chastity - as are European languages.
Title: Re: Pope allegedly used derogatory term for gay people
Post by: Nearly Sane on August 25, 2024, 09:48:11 PM
I think that everyone in this discussion is missing the point.  When the Pope uses the term celibacy he means "unmarried". It is a feature of English usage that has resulted in the term being used to mean "avoidance of sex". The RC Church is very clear about the difference between celibacy and chastity - as are European languages.
That makes no sense contextually.  And language changes