It would be, if that were actually the case.
For most it isn't.
Not quite sure what you mean Shaker but there are people who make a big deal out of not believing and deep down they aren't sure. Certainly those of us who were somewhat indoctrinated as kids have a certain core and fear. Then there are those who hate the
idea of a God, particularly a vengeful God.
The other thing is religion and the way it is sometimes presented and practised, many dislike that.
It isn't only Christianity, in its various forms, that can cause emotional abuse. Other faiths can have the same effect. It's my belief that kids should be encouraged to explore and make their own minds up, far healthier. However we are all influenced in some way by our upbringing, early environment, sometimes leaving scars; doesn't have to be religious. Letting go of the past is not easy.