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Nearly Sane

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Re: Onania
« Reply #1 on: December 06, 2016, 03:26:13 PM »
Blimey!

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Re: Onania
« Reply #2 on: December 06, 2016, 03:37:40 PM »
Tragic, NS.
I will come back later with report of things I read on the same subject (& did not understand at the time), which I read when I was a kid, in encyclopaedica-type books that my unc had in his bookcase.
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Re: Onania
« Reply #3 on: December 06, 2016, 03:56:47 PM »
Well I never did!

Otherwise I wouldn't have got to 70, would I?  ;)
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Re: Onania
« Reply #4 on: December 06, 2016, 05:49:51 PM »
I wouldn't recommend it as a method of suicide.
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Re: Onania
« Reply #5 on: December 06, 2016, 06:38:33 PM »
I wouldn't recommend it as a method of suicide.
though it may amount to a petit mort
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Re: Onania
« Reply #6 on: December 07, 2016, 06:19:07 AM »
Tragic, NS.
I will come back later with report of things I read on the same subject (& did not understand at the time), which I read when I was a kid, in encyclopaedica-type books that my unc had in his bookcase.
Thank goodness times have changed!

The worst aspect of this, I suppose, is that it is developing guilt for a normal, natural and beneficial activity. And by attaching a pseudo-biblical label like "onanism" making masturbation "sinful" and subject to religious control.
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Re: Onania
« Reply #7 on: December 07, 2016, 07:25:59 AM »
Indeed and didn't Mr Kellogg make a big thing out of it (no pun intended)?  Enough to put you off your cornflakes.

I remember reading about it, described as 'self abuse', in my uncle's medical encyclopaedia which said the habit caused weakness in the legs, depression and urination problems, and that adults should be alert to signs, such as uncharacteristic quietness and wanting to spend a lot of time alone in room - but it didn't describe exactly what it was young men - and some young women - did.  As a child, I was intrigued but couldn't ask anyone.
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Re: Onania
« Reply #8 on: December 07, 2016, 09:15:36 AM »
The worst aspect of this, I suppose, is that it is developing guilt for a normal, natural and beneficial activity. And by attaching a pseudo-biblical label like "onanism" making masturbation "sinful" and subject to religious control.

Masturbation is a normal sexual activity providing it is done in moderation in private. Far better for a young person to engage in that activity than to have sex with another before they are old enough to engage in it in a responsible manner.

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Re: Onania
« Reply #9 on: December 07, 2016, 09:37:53 AM »
Masturbation is a normal sexual activity providing it is done in moderation in private. Far better for a young person to engage in that activity than to have sex with another before they are old enough to engage in it in a responsible manner.
Moderation?

who's counting? and thank you for your condescending attitude .

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Re: Onania
« Reply #10 on: December 07, 2016, 10:26:45 AM »
This may well mean nothing to most people but there is an old song from The Band on the Run album by Wings called Mamunia.

I now find myself wandering around singing 'Onania, Onania, whoa, whoa, whoa; Onania Onania....etc'

Before we work on Artificial Intelligence shouldn't we address the problem of natural stupidity.

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Re: Onania
« Reply #11 on: December 07, 2016, 10:33:18 AM »
Onania sounds like a fictional world from the pages of C S Lewis.   Or an Irish grandmother.

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Re: Onania
« Reply #12 on: December 07, 2016, 10:43:45 AM »
This may well mean nothing to most people but there is an old song from The Band on the Run album by Wings called Mamunia.

I now find myself wandering around singing 'Onania, Onania, whoa, whoa, whoa; Onania Onania....etc'

You swine Trent: now I hear it too, and it won't go away, and it's your fault  :)

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« Reply #13 on: December 07, 2016, 12:30:14 PM »
Moderation?

who's counting? and thank you for your condescending attitude .

Condescending, what are you on about? I have heard if men masturbate excessively it can cause prostate problems.

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Re: Onania
« Reply #14 on: December 07, 2016, 12:47:47 PM »
Condescending, what are you on about? I have heard if men masturbate excessively it can cause prostate problems.

Never heard that before. Certainly not on the list supplied by the NHS of probable causes. Nor on the Cancer Research list either. It's not an old wives tale is it?

Still I'll be on here a lot more now I've got all this extra time on my hands.
« Last Edit: December 07, 2016, 12:50:52 PM by Trentvoyager »
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Re: Onania
« Reply #15 on: December 07, 2016, 12:59:58 PM »
I thought masturbation was beneficial to the prostate.  Sexual intercourse leading to ejaculation is good for the gland and masturbation is the alternative if intercourse is not on the cards. 

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« Reply #16 on: December 07, 2016, 01:31:10 PM »
Never heard that before. Certainly not on the list supplied by the NHS of probable causes. Nor on the Cancer Research list either. It's not an old wives tale is it?

Still I'll be on here a lot more now I've got all this extra time on my hands.

According to this article excessive masturbation in young men could cause prostate cancer, but might be beneficial in the over 50s!

http://www.nhs.uk/news/2009/01January/Pages/Masturbationprostatecancer.aspx

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Re: Onania
« Reply #17 on: December 07, 2016, 01:33:42 PM »
Yep - and the last para said it all:

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Men should not be overly concerned by this research. Sexual functioning is a normal part of healthy adult life. The causes of prostate cancer are not known for certain. Increasing age is the most established risk factor and more research is needed.
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Re: Onania
« Reply #18 on: December 07, 2016, 01:37:40 PM »
Condescending, what are you on about? I have heard if men masturbate excessively it can cause prostate problems.
does that still apply if someone does it for you ? :o

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Re: Onania
« Reply #19 on: December 07, 2016, 01:44:11 PM »
Walter, take yourself in hand boy!
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Re: Onania
« Reply #20 on: December 07, 2016, 01:50:01 PM »
According to this article excessive masturbation in young men could cause prostate cancer, but might be beneficial in the over 50s!

http://www.nhs.uk/news/2009/01January/Pages/Masturbationprostatecancer.aspx

Floo, I think you are in danger of over-interpreting some rather inconclusive results here. And how does the prostate know the difference between intercourse and masturbation?
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Re: Onania
« Reply #21 on: December 07, 2016, 02:06:32 PM »
Floo, I think you are in danger of over-interpreting some rather inconclusive results here. And how does the prostate know the difference between intercourse and masturbation?
intercourse?

what's that?

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Re: Onania
« Reply #22 on: December 07, 2016, 02:11:29 PM »
Walter, take yourself in hand boy!
Brownie, I've started, so ill...... ;D