As the article makes clear, we live with the luxury of not growing up with our friends and siblings dying of preventable disease, not losing our children, not having our kids dealing with long term health issues as a result of childhood illness.
I’ll tell you why vaccination was a hard one for me, and it was; nothing to do with Wakefield, but just the fact of taking a well child and making them ill, even though it’s better for them in the long run. One of my kids was terribly unwell after her MMR; another had adverse reactions to her baby imms that made her leg swell up like a balloon (‘it’s probably the mercury’.) Against that though I always held the tragic death of my friend’s son from meningitis - this was before the current vaccines were available. There’s no point in trying to find the words for how that was but it’s the worst thing I’ve known.
If you love your kids you get them vaccinated. It’s that simple.