Err yes, of course it's 'just a metaphor', Dawkins makes that completely clear in The Selfish Gene. Andrew Brown in The Darwin Wars created a little fairy story metaphor about Dawkins that when he was born, there was a big 'Christening' party and all the fairies were invited but they forgot about the bad , So the day came, and all of the fairies gave the baby Dawkins gifts. One gave him intelligence, one gave him good looks, one gave him skill at writing BUT of course the bad fairy swept in annoyed and told everyone that Dawkins would be cursed as they had not received an invite. So they walked up to the crib, and cursed him with metaphor.
The problem is that creating a metaphor that works if you read the book and it makes clear that it's a metaphor, doesn't work if all you have is the title and a basic explanation. Anyway, here's a quote about the title that makes clear that it always was a metaphor and part of the problem.
'Science is a victim of its own reductive metaphors: 'Big Bang,' 'selfish gene' and so on. Richard Dawkins' selfish gene fitted with the Thatcherite politics of the time. It should actually be the 'altruistic gene,' but he'd never have sold as many books with a title like that. '
Charles Jencks
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