You really are beyond belief!
So it is the qoman's fault for marrying or being in a relationship with a vicious and dominating man.
The depth of your inhumanity truly astonishes me. Your views on this subject are contemptible.
I don't think that's what I said Owlswing. What I was saying is that people find themselves in these situations because they ignore certain early symptoms like lies and deceit, aggression and arguing over nothing, being wound up until the victim is exhausted and unable to put up any resistance...at all.
Jesus Christ, who your bishop should be supporting, tells us something quite different to this...He says the wife should honour the husband and the husband honour the wife. If the wife was a Bible student she would know that kindness and harmony is well worth working towards and may even subconsciously be offering it but the bully isn't...they have a one track mind...they want to cause as much distress as possible.
Now we know what to look for in these bullying situations we can see the aggressor clearer and what their intentions really are...and not allowing ourselves to get so wound-up is the best action possible to offset the damage that is being inflicted in these situations...and I suggest that this is best achieved by following Jesus Christ.
I now realise a forum isn't the best place to put these ideas forward because, well, who wants to find a remedy for any type of bullying...so I will retire from this thread.