I'm an Anglican, brought up a Methodist, but I think that believer's (not necessarily adult) baptism should be the norm, for the reason above, and because there is no warrant for infant baptism in the NT. I also, though, think it is decidedly unimportant issue. (My local Baptists are all nice, non-fanatical tyes, as far as I know, though there are breakaway and independent groups who are somewhat fundamentalistically-inclined. Google Jesus Army.)