And what is it that has the sense of self?
What has the feeling of being an agent?
What perceives the experience of being in control?
What perceives the nightmare?
Who or what is the powerless, helpless, unwilling observer?
What is it that is forced to watch things unfold?
It is a very difficult problem, Alan, I haven't a clue as to how we observe all these experiences, but a soul explains nothing. if, as I suspect you believe, God is somehow in control of your soul, how does he perceive?
The easy way out of a problem is to kick it into the long grass. Saying it's all down to the unexplainable soul is doing just that and doesn't get you anywhere.
Our ancestors did that with most things they didn't understand - How could a calm sea suddenly turn into a giant wave ... How could a mountain that had been just part of the scenery for centuries, suddenly erupt into a raging inferno?
These things were all attributed to some god or other and it took someone to dig deeper until we now realise how these things happen. If we had all accepted the idea of such things being supernatural, we would still be worshiping the Sun God and the like.
The best way, Alan, is to say we don't know how these things work. One day we may understand how our consciences perceive things, but if we lazily put it all down to something that's even more unexplainable, we'll never progress.