AB,
I can only witness to my personal experiences of answers to prayer and growth in faith.
No you can’t. You can “witness” (ie describe) the events of your life but you have no justification for claiming answered prayers
I could witness to perceived negative aspects of my life -
I was born in a one bedroom terrace house with a tin bath and outside loo, living with my two siblings and two parents.
I later grew up in a council estate in Thorntree, Middlesbrough - classed as one of the most deprived regions in this country.
I take it you didn’t bother reading the link I gave you re survivorship bias, or for that matter the link to Tim Minchin?
Oh well. Your mistake here is to look at what
did happen that you like, and to ascribe to it a purposive god. What you didn’t do though was to consider the silent evidence of what
didn’t happen to you, but would have happened to other people. Imagine for example 1,000 babies born into exactly the circumstances you describe, and then fast forward 60 years. What do you think you’d find?
What you’d find is that some had died, some had fallen into addiction, some lived in poverty, some had never married, some had done relatively well etc. And let’s say that the “you” you describe is in the last group.
Now run the thought experiment again and guess what you’d find? Yep: some had died, some had fallen into addiction, some lived in poverty, some had never married, some had done relatively well etc. But here’s the thing: to some significant degree each of the these groups would be populated
by different people from the original 1,000. And the same would happen if you ran the experiment again. And again. And again.
Your mistake here is to ignore what might have happened instead, and then to assume that your good fortune must have been designed especially for you rather than it being exactly what you’d expect to see with no god present at all. And that's called survivorship bias.
Consider this also: what if there’s another group after 60 years, this one consisting of people who had done even better than you… more money, longer lives, happier children, whatever success indicators you like. What, using your reasoning, would you conclude about these people: that they’d picked a superior god to yours; that it’s the same god, only He cares about these people more than He cares about you; that they were more devout in their behaviour? What?
Can you see now where your backward thinking of a top down, solipsistic model designed just for you leads you when in fact nature just doing what nature does would be much easier to reconcile with the facts?
But I see these as external aspects of my life which pale into insignificance when compared with my journey in faith which brings me closer to God. Yes, I have had a good life which is totally interwoven and enriched with my prayer life and relationship with God. I truly believe that any person who can put their trust in God and prayer will have their lives enriched beyond expectations.
I don’t doubt that you’re sincere about that no matter how wrongheaded the reasoning you attempt to justify it.