Spud,
Sedatives prior to inserting a PEG are routine:
To clarify: they had given up with the n/g tube, and explained the PEG option and got her consent for the operation. On finding this out I spoke to a different nurse who said she might try the n/g tube once more with sedation, when she was on duty the next day. So when that time came I was praying for success.
People like to attribute success to their own skill, and that is part of it, but it is clear that the outcome was brought about because people had prayed for the patient. God did it not because of anything special about our prayers but because he wanted to humble us. That's the best explanation I can give