First, my reply to Shaker:
The message of salvation is certainly what we want to hear, but the method of achieving it may not be to our liking. In reading the bible, I get a great sense of underlying wisdom, but I recognise it as God's wisdom not human wisdom.
On the big question of suffering:
We can't choose reality. We have to accept reality as it is. Reality includes suffering, and every human being on this planet will have to endure some form of suffering in their lifetime. When a Christian prays for God to take suffering away, God will answer the prayer in one of two ways. He will either bring about a miraculous end to the suffering, or He will give the person strength and courage to endure it in order to bring about a greater good. The suffering we endure either comes from the actions of others, or from some natural disaster in nature. I am certain that God does not send suffering down on us of His own free will.
We can't pass judgement from outside. It is easy to pick examples of other people's suffering and claim it should never have happened to them. One of the books I mentioned in an earlier post - "The Hiding Place" by Corrie Ten Boom, describes how Corrie and her family were arrested for hiding Jews in their house and sent to a concentration camp in Germany. Her father and sister died in dreadful circumstances, but Corrie survived and tells an amazing story of how her Christian faith helped her through this terrible chapter of her life and lead on to greater things. You would need to read the book to fully understand. In another book, "Blessings" the author Mary Craig tells how having two handicapped children brought true blessings into her life and the lives of others and helped her to discover her Christian faith. If you ever met Becky's husband, Andrew, he will witness to how God is helping him, his children and Becky through this ordeal. Andrew has very strong faith, probably stronger than mine, and he knows God will see them through this.
And we remember that Jesus suffered too. He prayed for it to be be taken away from Him, but was given the strength to endure it and bring about a greater good for all mankind.
As I said, we can't choose the reality we would like, but we have to accept it as it is, and with God's help we see true pupose in our existence and we will live to see a reality beyond our wildest dreams.