The disabled have a very positive role to play in our society. They bring out love in others they didn't know they had. Frequently they do useful jobs and cheer everyone up. They need our protection and love.
As for singing praise songs with them, if they like it fine. They are presumably not forced to participate.
I can see God in the faces and actions of others sometimes.
God is a mystery anyway.
These were children completely 'shut in', or so she said - unable to walk, communicate, often deaf or blind or both.
I agree that people with disabilities often bring out the best in people, although not always. But having known two families with children with disabilities similar to those I describe, the amount of hardship and suffering it brings is enormous, in spite of the love. It impacts on siblings, marriages, the health of parents and carers. Both families I know had to move home and all their children move schools. One child has a twin who is completely well, the other is disabled due to medical negligence. Both of these give the parents huge sadness.
And I could be writing about my own daughter were it not for the diligence of the obstetrician on duty the night she was born. Although she was not breathing when born, had to be resuscitated and had a collapsed lung as a consequence, had organs not working and an abnormal brain scan due to oxygen deprivation, somehow, she made a full recovery. I look at my beautiful, clever daughter every day in wonder at what could have been. And I find it very, very difficult to square the suffering others have had to endure with an omnipotent loving creator God.