Dear enki,
I would suggest that Christianity has affected my life in all sorts of ways, some good, some bad.
What ways, and do they still affect you.
Here's a true story, and it can all be verified if you search the old Beeb forum, we had a poster called Dyslexic ( could have been Dypslexic ) who was/is an atheist, but he once was a Christian, his knowledge of the Four Gospels was astounding, he could explain the hidden depth, the true message of the Gospels, you could tell that the Gospels had affected him in a very profound way, hell! the man was a better Christian than I am.
Now the above example is a tad OTT, but the poster was very relaxed in his atheism, and very relaxed regarding how the Gospels, his time as a Christian had affected him, what stuck with him and what he discarded as nonsense, and as you can see he had a big influence on me.
Just looking for atheists to open up a bit, relax your guard slightly, a bit more open on how Christianity has affected you.
By the same token many other 'cultural' influences have had an effect on my life (e.g. music, drama, dancing, science).
Me to, I can be quite boring when it comes to Einstein, and not afraid to admit I would rather read Kipling than the Gospels.
As a former schoolteacher, I would agree that schools should guide our kids to become more responsible and caring adults. I see this as part of the ethos of the school, rather than being taught you should do this, you should not do that, although I do see the need for some sort of examination, as Outy suggests, of personal, social and health development. What you might call a mechanism, for me, I don't see as a mechanism at all. It is a part of me. I do not feel the need to justify my attitudes by relating them to a particular religion or a particular set of religious rules. After saying that, I'm sure that my own attitudes can quite easily overlap with some of the tenets of various religions. I always tried to show by my actions the importance of such things as responsibility towards others, respect towards another person etc.
Well it was Outrider who used the word mechanism, just thought a atheist, any atheist had a definitive mechanism, mine is Christianity but I will search out other philosophies and religions which inspire me.
On your last point, as an atheist, I totally reject the accusation that the 'atheist turns a blind eye to the work of religious organisations'
Well I don't see many posts on here from atheists shouting from the roof tops about all the great work done by religious organisations.
On the other hand, if a religious organisation/charity's aim is to further their particular Christian message, then I wish to have nothing to do with it.
And that is very telling, if you had to choose which organisation got the pound in your pocket, does your atheism affect this, actually I think you have answered that question.
The privileges that any charitable organisation enjoys should be on the basis of the avowed aim of helping people in need, and, therefore, should not be on the basis of whether they are a religious organization or not.
Can't really argue against this but the great work that the Church of Scotland, Church of England, Sally Ann, Barnados etc etc do, day in day out I think deserves some kind of privilege.
Gonnagle.