You seem to have a very good knowledge of the bible, but you show an extremely negative bias in the way you interpret it. I also have good knowledge of the bible, and in it I see a God who loves us. The nature of God's love for us was summed up very well by the new recipient of the Nobel prize for literature:
When the rain is blowing in your face
And the whole world is on your case
I could offer a warm embrace
To make you feel my love
When evening shadows and the stars appear
And there is no one there to dry your tears
I could hold you for a million years
To make you feel my love
I know you haven't made your mind up yet
But I would never do you wrong
I've known it from the moment that we met
No doubt in my mind where you belong
I'd go hungry, I'd go black and blue
I'd go crawling down the avenue
And oh, there's nothing that I wouldn't do
To make you feel my love
The storms are raging on the rolling sea
And on the highway of regret
The winds of change are blowing wild and free
You ain't seen nothing like me yet
I could make you happy, make your dreams come true
Nothing that I wouldn't do
Go to the ends of the earth for you
To make you feel my love
There is definitely some good stuff in the Bible, particularly in Ecclesiastes. I'm quite happy to admit to that fact with no problem whatsoever.
However, there is also some bad stuff in the Bible which I'm also happy to admit to.
Here is where we differ because what I see as bad (genocide, incest, murder, homophobia, misogyny, discrimination, divisiveness, slavery, etc) you see as the transcendent love of some supreme cosmic mega-being.