I bet they're counting the minutes.
I hope so.
I am counting the minutes until I am no longer financially or legally responsible for them - which means I no longer have to deal with the responsibilities of parenting a child but can deal with them as adults, where they make their own decisions and deal with the consequences themselves.
I enjoy watching them be better/ more talented than me in many aspects of their life with the opportunities they have been given.
Hopefully I have given them enough incentive to leave home and be self-sufficient because freedom will be more appealing to them even if it means forgoing the bank of Mum and Dad and living at home. If they like what Islam has to offer even when they're adults, great, if not, oh well.
If they have the grit to not crave my approval or support, even better. I will probably be quietly impressed even if they tell me to f*** off and live their own lives, if it works for them and I don't need to bail them out.