AB,
Sorry, but a sensation of control is not control - it is just a reaction which is deemed to appear like control.
For any form of control to exist, whether is is perceived as internal or external, it must by definition come from a source capable of deliberately exerting control. Such a source is not definable in material science, but I am currently in total control of the keys I am deliberately typing. It is not a sensation of control, it is definitive control exerted my me - it is not just an uncontrollable reaction dictated entirely by past events.
This is basically the same nonsense Vlad attempts when he says, “If your definition of morality doesn’t agree with mine, then it’s not real morality”. “Control” doesn’t imply that he has to be the equivalent of a kid flying his toy helicopter on Christmas day – separate from it but pulling the levers. That we feel as though we have “control” is just a term we use for the deeper reality that we can’t avoid the substrate of cause and effect. The alternative is randomness, which would be chaotic.
You might not like that, you might really, really want it not to be so but the fact remains that you cannot escape it. No matter how much you wave your fists and shout, “But I’m in control! But I’m in control!” the “I” remains a perception made up of unfathomably large numbers of interactions of material stuff and forces that create the emergent property of self.