I was chatting with my wife about control - and she said that religion is an attempt at fake control over life. It made me think about the existentialists, who argued that we are faced with being anxious, because we are not in control. I asked her where she was going shopping this morning, and how she decided, and it just comes to her, unannounced. Alan's ideas about control just seems like something from the 18th century, or earlier. Well, premodern.
The other thing is that the idea of the unconscious - or subconscious if you like - has smashed up notions of control, since my thoughts and feelings come from the black lagoon.