I'll put up my hands and admit there's a lot of incredulity in this post of mine, having said that I'll ramble on a bit if anyone want's to bear with me well O K thanks.
Some time ago I experienced first hand someone making a similar mistake to the one A B keeps on making more or less every day, like never acceding to a better argument, on seeing the former happening, although not the same mistake A B is making, something similar I swore to myself that when I get someone proving to me without any doubt that I'm completely wrong about anything I will do an immediate about face, as the only rational thing to do when you're plainly wrong.
I was convinced that the sport of boxing was a terrible and a wrong thing to do, I still can't bear to see a knock-out when it makes me think of the inevitable accompanying brain damage involved, I really thought that Dr Edith Summerskill M P had it right about the sport, I then heard a long involved discussion about all angles of Boxing and, on principal, had to admit to those I'd had long running disputes with that on balance I had it wrong about the sport.
Recently where I had been telling a close family member about how easy it was reading a map and why they needed these sat navs to get from A to B, when it is so easy with a map etc., and then I went to a big family wedding recently in the backwoods, backwoods to me, of the Midlands somewhere near Bewdley, the 12 seater van we had hired had a sat nav inbuilt, much to my annoyance I had to put up my hands and admit I had it wrong, it was a revelation, my relative is still trying to believe when I immediately admitted I had got it wrong about sat navs.
What's wrong with admitting where you've got things wrong, even when you've been convinced you're right for years, all right it is annoying to have to feel like you're climbing down in some cases, but surly it's far worse not admitting to being fallible, yes, even I get thing wrong from time to time, have a sense of humour about it when you get it wrong, we all get it wrong occasionally?
I can however see as it's been alluded to in quite a few posts referring to A B, if someone has put a considerable investment into a certain way of life, no matter how misguided we may be surly it has to be far better to face thing as they really are in spite of perhaps a feeling of some loss or loss of face is involved?
I would find it far more acceptable to hear from anyone that holds on to beliefs in the way A B clings like death on to his belief, such as when he refers to some sort of relationship he really believes he has with this god figure of his imagination, wouldn't it be better for believers in general if they were to recognise that in spite of the lack of the rational, they feel these beliefs so strongly they have to reject the rational when holding these beliefs, instead of going around and around in Do Do like circles in, as they think, in an attempt to rationalise the irrational and at the same time going in the same way the Do Do Has gone before them..
Regards ippy