Bit of a tangent here but relevant I think.
Last night I listened to most of an interview which Stephen Nolan did with a chap called Russ something who is very much involved with coaching children's football teams and obviously encouraging the best and right approaches and attitudes in the many people involved. He also has terminal cancer. I missed the beginning of the interview but at the age of 37 he has only a period of comparatively few months to live. There is apparently much interest in and support for him on the social media.
The reason I mention this here is that he was asked by Stephen Nolan how he and his wife had told their children, aged 6 and 7. The answer was that they had said Daddy will be going to heaven much sooner than usual. He then went on to say that the children had come up with various questions about heaven. I was saddened by this because the parents have now set up an idea in the children's minds, at a stage when everything is taken literally, that there is a place called heaven. That is one thing that Brendan Cox did not do after Jo Cox was murdered. Even though his children were slightly older, why fob children off with an unnecessary idea. Russ was asked if he believed in God and his answer was that he is open to the concept. Personally, I hope that the children do not spend years of their lifves believing something for which zero evidence exists. It is going to be hard enough for them to cope with anyway, but to blur the issue with a false sort of hope is a mistake I'd say.
Edited to remove an extra l