AB,
Our consciously driven freedom to make choices is validated by what we do.
Still ducking and diving then. "Our consciously driven freedom to make choices" as you put it would feel the same whether the experience
of it wasn't the explanation
for it, or whether there was a magic little man at the controls.
Why then not even bother with trying to think about what the actual explanation for it could be?
Just as the presence of gravity is verified by what it does.
Another failure. We experience gravity, just as we experience "free" will. If we relied on our experience of gravity to explain it too though we might for example decide that it's done by invisible pixies holding stuff down with very thin strings. Investigation though tells us that gravity is the phenomenon by which things with mass or energy are brought toward one another, caused by the bending of spacetime. Thus no pixies are needed.
What you do with the experience of "free" will is equivalent to deciding that invisible pixies explain gravity, only instead of pixies you assert into existence "soul" to do the job. That's why if you have any hope of finding a more cogent truth you need to
investigate the phenomenon, rather than just assume that the experience
of something must also be the explanation
for it.
A good place to start would be to stop endlessly running away from the question you've been asked and finally to attempt at least an answer to it.