You have no idea what my lifetime experiences comprise. All I can say is that if you had witnessed the answers to prayer I have personally experienced you would not be able to write them all off as coincidences. Many people might write them off because of their own half hearted attempts at prayer which are not backed up with a true faith in God. Jesus Himself confirmed that people's lack of faith prevented Him from performing miraculous healings.
As I suspected, pretty limited, this God of yours, isn't he? Can't even perform miracles because of people's lack of faith, even though He was the person who created these people in the first place. So, if I pray for an easing of pain for a loved one who is about to die, and the pain is not lessened, then it is because I didn't pray sincerely enough. How sad, and, of course if He was able to lessen the pain, how cruel! You would have thought that over at least 2000 years He would have been able to obviate this discrepancy in the interests of his purported kindness and love for humanity. Seems He is much more focussed on the people who pray rather than on those in distress. How harsh!
Certainly you paint a picture of your God, who favours some but not others, and then tries to lay the blame for this on the others, in other words a God without a sense of responsibility, in my eyes.
Luckily, as I do not believe in this God of yours, I will endeavour, as will all like minded people, to provide as much comfort and easing of pain as possible in human, caring terms, as we did so very recently with my now deceased brother in law.
A pox on your twisted, hypocritical and ultimately cruel ideas.