So where DO you get your moral standard from?
Apologies if this was exclusively directed to Littleroses, but I'm an atheist and I have morals.
My moral standard has been developed over my lifetime through reading, input from others and my instincts as an empathetic human being. I think about things and come to a conclusion based on the available information. So, for examples:
I don’t think being homosexual is wrong, because it’s nobody else’s business what an individual does with their own body providing they aren’t hurting anyone else. Happy to expand on what I mean by 'hurt' in this context if necessary.
I think dashing babies’ heads against rocks is wrong, because I believe life has intrinsic worth; babies are not guilty of anything but, even if babies had committed heinous crimes, dashing their heads against rocks would be a cruel way to punish them and would brutalise the person doing it as well as kill the baby. I think cruelty is wrong because I wouldn’t like it done to me.
I’m open to arguments as to why dashing babies’ heads against rocks might be moral though. Have you got any?
Most potentially morally hazardous situations are not nearly so straightforward in such a complicated world. Frequently I take a chance that something that makes me feel good is actually good, even though there may be unintended deleterious consequences, e.g. giving money to charities. As I cannot possibly know all the implications of my every act, I try to err on the side of generosity and compassion. I frequently fail to live up to my own standards, but then as well as being kind and thoughtful, I’m selfish, greedy and lazy, like most humans. I’m proud of myself for trying and for not relying on an old book, which contains a lot of grotesque violence, nonsense and contradictions, for my moral grounding.