We are made in God's image in our capacity to consciously interact with this world using our free will to achieve our desired goals, reflecting God's creativity.
Which, presumably, means making our own moral interpretations of what we find?
But this in no way allows us to see the world through God's eyes and pontificate on how God should be working.
I'm not saying that we would have a notional gods capacity, but we have some capacity and can do nothing other than exercise that to make the determinations that we can. The excuses offered on behalf of your god do not stand up to that examination, which suggests one of three things: we do not have the capability to understand the full moral depths (in which case, to what extent are we made in God's image, and why were we made with only a partial capacity?); there is no God, and people are just trying to come up with ad hoc justifications for primitive tribalism writ as religion; or, there is a something that has been interpreted as god, but it doesn't match up to the Christian depiction.
We can use our faith to put our trust in God without fully understanding.
Which 'we' is this? Why am expected to give up my critical faculties and ignore the evidence in front of me?
Our ability to perceive meaning within our conscious mind is a God given gift - as you appear to imply, there can be no concept of meaning within a physically pre determined material reality.
It's not that there is no concept of meaning - we each find our own meaning - but there's no evidence that there's any overarching purpose to reality or our existence which we need to find. There's no evidence that reality was created FOR something; it is simply a naturally occurring event, of which we are an equally incidental part. We are significant to ourselves and each other, but to the universe at large we appear to be incidental.
The Bible implies that Angels can fall from grace - as can mankind. It is all bound up with God's gift of free will which frees us from being entirely controlled by God or from nature - but such freedom comes with a price, intrinsic in our freedom to choose between good and evil.
Yet both biology and physics appear to render the notion of 'free will' untenable. There is no evidence of any 'missing' parts of our mental activity which would afford space for some non-deterministic component of thinking to represent the 'freedom' you talk of.
The future is not some as yet undetermined range of possibilities; there is no universal 'now' waiting for tomorrow to get here. Time is a dimension, and yesterday, tomorrow and all the other points along the timeline exist in parallel. Reality is already written, end-to-end, and we are not creating it as we go, we are documenting it from the inside as we travel the only road we can.
Yes - our conscious freedom to choose is an essential ingredient for love to manifest.
Regardless of whether you accept the idea of free will or not, I do not see a need for free will to be a thing in order to accept that you can love - indeed, the experience of innumerable people documenting affairs of the heart, familial relationships, notions of parenting and the like seems to show that who people love is rarely a matter of choice.
O.