This just shows that you imagine that anything you believe to be moral, makes it Objectively Moral!
He asked me a question I gave him an answer. No one has said we think we can prove OM so if you were expecting a proof you haven't understood the nature of the argument. However I don't think its objective because I believe it. I believe it because I think its true. I'm quite open to the fact that I may be wrong about this and many of my moral beliefs; however being right or wrong is only something that makes sense if there is a right answer, whether or not I have correctly identified it.
Why on earth is objectivity even in the frame. Some things - Alien's famous example is one, are abhorrent to the vast majority of us but that is because we all have feelings and loved ones we have a need to protect - it isn't because there is some great entity somewhere that lays down the rules!
If that was true and all that morality was was our personal response then you would have thought that you could have come up with a defence to some of the problems with this I highlighted in post 351. Jakswan couldn't, can you?
All this monotonous 'moral realist' talk is complete bollocks! It's simply a desperate way to try to bring a god into the question! If a god existed, the last thing he/she/it would be bothered about would be whether gays living together had signed a piece of paper and called themselves married or not!
Whatever else you belief this is demonstrably false. There are a great many moral realists who are atheists including some renown atheists and humanist philosophers like Stephen Law. It might make u feel better to think that the only reason people accept realism is to bolster theism nevetherless the majority of academic philosophers are moral realists dispite the fact that only a minority are theists. This fact alone doesn't make it right of course, but it does prove your assertions wrong.
DT
You are telling us your reasons why you consider certain actions are wrong and I'm quite sure we all agree with you. You would hate to be subjected to bullying etc and would hate your loved ones or any other human or animal to suffer in that way. We all agree with that but IOV it isn't something set in stone by anyone other than us, the human race.
Likewise, marriage most of us would consider the right of any couple, gay or straight and who love each other. No argument there.
Where these deeply held feelings come from is the question. You and Alan seem to us to imagine that some thinking, intelligent entity has decided that such actions are wrong - this is where the two sides part company!
I think most atheists would say that it is a product of evolution and that without that concern for others of our species, we would have died out long ago. Most animals look after their own offspring and we have simply taken it forward to have concern for all, or most, other species too.
You, being a theist, and thinking God created everything, would obviously make morality just another 'thing' he created ... which is why I, as an atheist, believe your understanding to be wrong.
Discussing what we believe to be right or wrong is pointless, we need you to persuade us that there is someone or something that consciously decides them to be right or wrong. That is the yawning gulf between us.