Author Topic: Inked/Tattoo'd parents are 10 times more likely to abuse/neglect their children  (Read 16949 times)

Owlswing

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I've not got a tattoo - I have always thought I would get one - but never got around to it.

At 58 it seems a bit late now, somehow. I have no problem with them at all - so long as they are done well and aren't the blue veiny ones which used to predominate the tattoo world years ago. You know the sort - self tattoos - LOVE HATE!

58 is no problem - I got my second as a 59th birthday present from my daughter.
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I'm afraid if I did have a tattoo it would indeed be 'a', but I know exactly what I want and where it would go - it would be about a couple of inches across. But as I have very sensitive skin (I'm allergic to formaldehyde and the bloody stuff's everywhere, but other stuff irritates too) I suppose it would be a bad idea. <sigh>

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It would be interesting to know what proportion of those on or below the 'bread line' get tattoos as opposed to those above it?  Whilst I'm not against tattoos, our elder daughter has two very distinctive ones which are in no way obtrusive or easily visible, I am aware that they cost money and time which some people may not actually have other than by scrimping on money for food or other necessities.

I remember speaking to a lady who came into our homelessness charity some years ago who was very heavily tattooed just about everywhere (at least visible) - legs, arms, forehead, hands, feet, ... .  In the discussion, the issue of non-essential expenditure came up and she brought up the fact that she had spent in the region of £5K on her tattoos over the previous 5 or 6 years.  Even she admitted that, as a result, she had spent money on them that shouldn have been spent on her children.

I think this report, like so many reports, has truths buried within it, but which are perhaps not dealt with in the way they should be.
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But Hope, people on low incomes squander money on all kinds of stuff they shouldn't. Clothes, shoes, gadgets etc... In some communities these things act as status symbols and as a result they become a kind of armour in a world that doesn't always feel very safe.

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Only on both labia, in which case it's a twattwo.
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I'm afraid if I did have a tattoo it would indeed be 'a', but I know exactly what I want and where it would go - it would be about a couple of inches across. But as I have very sensitive skin (I'm allergic to formaldehyde and the bloody stuff's everywhere, but other stuff irritates too) I suppose it would be a bad idea. <sigh>
All is not lost. If you get a really good, reputable artist it's worth asking about the content of the inks and other products in connection with skin sensitivity. For example, most tattoo inks are vegetable based, but there can be other products which contain animal-based ingredients, so serious vegans shop around for those studios that use wholly vegan things.

Another, very much more common issue is latex allergy (which affects quite a few people); if you're considering going under the needle you have to make sure that the tattoo artist wears a suitable alternative. So there's a way round everything :)
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Thanks for that, Shaker. I'd have to get the advice of my dermatologist too - I believe there is an artist with a good reputation not far away.

This is an approximation of what I want, on the nape of my neck.

http://www.goddessgift.net/images/pendant-star-goddess-TG-JSTAR-CU.jpg


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Niiiice! :D
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If you look at the header page on Facebook It says " just for fun" so I don't think it is meant to be taken seriously.
It leads to here.
http://www.godhatestattoos.com
If you go to the website, the clue that it may well be a wind up is that there are no contact details - just 'readers' responses. 
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There have been many campaigns by Christian groups againt many thimngs that they consider to be "against the wishes" or "against the rules/bible" of their God.

This one I find to be the most unpleasant so far.


https://www.facebook.com/791861664242320/photos/a.792401497521670.1073741827.791861664242320/797365047025315/?type=1&theater

Comments please, what do others think. - My thought is "what a load of complete and utter rubbish!"

Some people wear Christian themed tattoos.

Personally I think tattoos look HORRIBLE

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Look up Nadia Bolz-Weber.
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Thanks for that, Shaker. I'd have to get the advice of my dermatologist too - I believe there is an artist with a good reputation not far away.

This is an approximation of what I want, on the nape of my neck.

http://www.goddessgift.net/images/pendant-star-goddess-TG-JSTAR-CU.jpg

Very nice! Identifies your religion to others within it.
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If you look at the header page on Facebook It says " just for fun" so I don't think it is meant to be taken seriously.
It leads to here.
http://www.godhatestattoos.com
If you go to the website, the clue that it may well be a wind up is that there are no contact details - just 'readers' responses.

And what does that prove - how many of the fundamentalist (read Leviticus) brigade are going to care about that!
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Depending on the tattoo, I quite like some of them.

I don't have any, btw.

You can always get the ones you stick on, temporary ones or learn to draw a pattern with henna, as an alternative I suppose.

I think most tattoos, especially when done in numbers, look unattractive.
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And what does that prove - how many of the fundamentalist (read Leviticus) brigade are going to care about that!
Are you sure that you want to take that line, when you remember who started the thread?   ;)
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And what does that prove - how many of the fundamentalist (read Leviticus) brigade are going to care about that!
Are you sure that you want to take that line, when you remember who started the thread?   ;)

Of course I do!

Do you really think that your basic "the bible is everything" idiot is going to bother finding out if the site is a wind up? Of course they are not! They will jiust pick it up and run with it!

Even someone as blinkered as you to the excesses of some of your fellow Christians must see that.
« Last Edit: July 13, 2015, 08:53:20 AM by CMG KCMG GCMG »
The Holy Bible, probably the most diabolical work of fiction ever to be visited upon mankind.

An it harm none, do what you will; an it harm some, do what you must!

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Do you really think that you basic "the bible is everything" idiot is going to bother finding out if the sire is a wind up? Of course they are not! They will jiust pick it up and run with it!
In just the same way as you did?
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Do you really think that you basic "the bible is everything" idiot is going to bother finding out if the sire is a wind up? Of course they are not! They will jiust pick it up and run with it!
In just the same way as you did?

I didn't see it as a wind-up but, as soon as it was pointed oiut to me I did see the danger from the 'basic "the bible is everything" idiot' - you clearly did not.
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The Holy Bible, probably the most diabolical work of fiction ever to be visited upon mankind.

An it harm none, do what you will; an it harm some, do what you must!

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Matty,
You are so full of BS. You point your claw at fundies, accusing them of what YOU DID. You picked it up and ran with it!! There's no fool like an old fool. Ha, ha, ha, yup. Our little witch took the bait and without putting on his little thinking cap, without paying attention to what was written, started yet another DUH thread.

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There have been many campaigns by Christian groups againt many thimngs that they consider to be "against the wishes" or "against the rules/bible" of their God.

This one I find to be the most unpleasant so far.


https://www.facebook.com/791861664242320/photos/a.792401497521670.1073741827.791861664242320/797365047025315/?type=1&theater

Comments please, what do others think. - My thought is "what a load of complete and utter rubbish!"

Gives a new meaning to being on the piste....
Like one tattoo and it is all down hill...

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To all those pointing out that the site is a wind up I point to the last line of the OP

Quote - Comments please, what do others think. - My thought is "what a load of complete and utter rubbish!" - Unquote
The Holy Bible, probably the most diabolical work of fiction ever to be visited upon mankind.

An it harm none, do what you will; an it harm some, do what you must!

Humph Warden Bennett

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Look up Nadia Bolz-Weber.

I have done. Yep she is different :)

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Don't bother trying to wipe your butt now Matty. You started the post attacking Christian campaigns, telling us this is the worst one. Utter rubbish is your opinion of that campaign that you fell for like a fundie.