Christians chose the former...
Is it just about hope? No it isn't.
But the truth is God has a much better plan for our lives and most people are just to scared to let go of the reins and let someone else make the plans and decisions for them.
A number of threads on the forum read like a battle of keeping your own independence from God so mocking those who would rather depend on God. What options are there?
What do YOU really know about God when it comes to making that choice?
A choice we all make sometime in our life whether it is a conscious choice or not.
There is a saying "God helps those who help themselves"
And God help them who get caught helping themselves.
I'm a great believer in taking the initiative and making your own plans and decisions and helping those you meet on your path if you feel called to do so.
All this stuff about it being wrong to be independant and to sit about waiting for God to sort out your life for you, doesn't sound right to me.
Being independent? Do you know Rose, I am beginning to see how some unbelievers are thinking so wrongly about these things
How does believing and knowing God stop us making plans or decisions?
How do you think a believer could sit and wait around waiting for God to make decisions and plans? God is about us living life to the full not becoming robots.
I am suspicious that it is all ( being dependant on God ) some ruse to allow other religious people to influence your choices and is to open to manipulation.
I never knew people thought as you do and find it very strange.
Where did you get such ideas from?
I think you should make your own plans and decisions, independently and then use what you are good at, to help those around you or fulfill what you feel your calling is.
I'm not about to be relinquishing any reins or decisions to the influence of any religion, now or in the foreseeable future.
As far as Christianity goes , if you did then you would be the first to do so, if you did. I am amazes you have such a wrong outlook at such things...
If God is your "Heavenly Father" then children still need to aim to be "independant " adults.
So God should remove your food and mine because we are adults?
You really don't understand the nature of God being the Father.
If God did not provide all would be dead...
I tend to think all this "surrender your decisions and plans to God" is an excuse for various religious human beings to gain an influence over your life and gives them a sort of justification for it.
I'm a cynic when it comes to surrendering independence.
You have it all wrong... Rose go study Christianity because your ideas are way over the top....