I don't think private = better but I do appreciate the greater autonomy that heads have. And it isn't state schools I object to - we can scarcely afford the fees even with two scholarships and I would much rather not have that headache - but the pressure that schools have been under from successive governments that leave the wellbeing of pupils at the bottom of priorities.
State schools can only grant leave in exceptional circumstances, not on compassionate grounds. There are recorded cases of parents being fined for taking pupils out for family weddings - including their own. My daughter wasn't sick by the time we took a break, just exhausted, but her siblings were fit and well and there were no 'exceptional circumstances' to justify their leave - and no medical reason for my eldest to have leave either, no doctor's letter or diagnosis of anything.
I am glad you in the start of your post you seem to be less negative about state schools.
But sadly you can't seem to help yourself with your further comments:
'State schools can only grant leave in exceptional circumstances, not on compassionate grounds', while in your view you 'do appreciate the greater autonomy that [private schools] heads have.
Firstly compassionate grounds are a very good example of 'exceptional circumstances'. But private schools don't have more autonomy - they have to abide by exactly the same rules as state schools.
And as I have already mentioned exactly the same rules (imposed by government) apply to state schools and private schools. The autonomy of a private school Head is identical to that of a state school Head. The issue isn't related to the public funding of state schools, but to the overarching requirement of children to be in full time education.
So again - these are the rules (which apply to both state and private equally):
'Code H: Holiday authorised by the school
Head teachers should not grant leave of absence unless there are exceptional circumstances. The application must be made in advance and the head teacher must be satisfied that there are exceptional circumstances based on the individual facts and circumstances of the case which warrant the leave. Where a leave of absence is granted, the head teacher will determine the number of days a pupil can be away from school. A leave of absence is granted entirely at the head teacher’s discretion.'
Here is the whole document if you want to read it:
http://tinyurl.com/lzszwfmEdited to replace long URL