So based on a few comments and without knowing where I live, the schools my children attended or the demographic of the local schools you judge me. Like, for example, the fact that the local state school has a much lower ratio of students from ethnic minorities than the independent school yet is ten times the size. Ditto children with SEN. Did you know that the 'bad' school I cite is rated 'Outstanding' by Ofsted?
Rather I suggest you are biased against me because the choices I have made do not agree with your ideological point of view. So you seek to prove that with personal and derogatory comments that are designed to destroy my credibility - 'starry eyed' being but one example.
So, it seems you are free to make derogatory and inaccurate assertions and call them 'facts' even though you know very little about me, my family or my politics, yet when others do it they are 'asserting' and should shut up.
Again you seem to be mixing up the specifics vs the generality.
I have clearly said that your choice of schools is entirely up to you and also that I am in no position to comment on your local experiences, just as you aren't on mine. I've made these points before:
Reply 30: 'Your choice of school is entirely a matter for you, and your bad experience in the state sector does seem to be a major factor in that choice (I think you'd freely admit that). But your individual bad experience doesn't mean all state schools are tarred with the same brush.'
' have no problem with you bad-mouthing a particular state school that you have experience of (and how could I anyway because only you have that experience).'
The problem I have is when you generalise to the whole sector, either directly or in an implied manner. So for example:
'State schools cannot sanction visits to relations, or term time holidays in general without risk of sanction. Private schools can and do'
'The head at the state school my children attended wanted to be able to grant term time holidays but couldn't. Contrast that to the fee paying school'
'State schools can only grant leave in exceptional circumstances, not on compassionate grounds.'
All of these comments imply that all state schools aren't able to do something, and that lack of discretion is, in your opinion a negative thing. Yet it is demonstrably untrue as state schools have exactly the same discretion under legislation as private schools. If that doesn't imply a negativity toward state schools (al of them, not just the bad one you have experienced), then I don't know what does.