Rose, we do have the same freedom of speech as in the States; obviously things can't be said in print media or in the workplace but what people say in pubs and online especially is very different.
My feeling is that because we are such a small place geographically we've long ago learned that tolerance and getting along helps society to function far better than fracturing off from each other. In the States there are some places that are still geographically isolated and that are stuck in the 50s or beyond. They really haven't kept up with the modern world at all. And because of the net, that mindset is now able to reach beyond those closed communities and affect others.