Triggered by the Independent article linked to above, I wrote the following on Facebook.
I have not put a French flag filter on. I just don't see the point. That said I understand my friends that have and I share their shock and horror at events in Paris, and indeed in Beirut and Baghdad, and Manchester where one kid was shot. It's not about numbers, and caring about one thing more than an other for reasons of likeness to you, or meaning for you does not make anyone a bad person, never mind some of the tosh in this article.
This indulgent one-upmanship on caring is deeply uncaring. It precisely treats real human suffering as an abstract numbers game. It does not promote news about the suffering of others but buries it in a whine of my caring is better than your's. None of us can begin to deal with the enormity of pain, suffering and death that we as a species seem inordinately skilled at inflicting on each other, but we will never deal with any of it while vacuously indulging in a wankfest of condemning others for not caring enough. If people care about suffering, and you want things to change ask them to help, ask them to speak up for who you see as suffering, realise that they are like the imperfect struggling person that you are. Reach out, don't attack them for not thinking exactly like you because that will just alienate and is too ironic to deal with.
A French flag does not mean there are people you don't care about, rather there are people you do care about and that is where we all must start.