And this whole post shows how poorly you have studied the Bible and Jewish religion, DU. It is clear from the Hebrew Scriptures that the Jews had been chosen to be 'a light to the Gentiles' - a purpose that the same Scriptures are keen to highlight as having been failed in. Understandably, God offers the Jewish people the chance to redeem themselves in this regard by sending his son to them, rather than to another group, but when their leaders seem unwilling to get involved, he encourages the Jews he has gathered around him to bypass them and go directly to the Gentiles themselves - thus fulfilling the purpose the Jews were chosen for. As such, there aren't 'two views of Jesus' as you suggest, just two aspects of the same purpose.
I am fully aware that there is a corpus of ideas in the OT that the Jews are chosen to "be a light to the Gentiles", though this view is by no means consistently stressed, and 'God' is often portrayed as being narrow-mindedly tribal. However, I'd agree that it relates that 'through Abraham's seed all the nations of the earth will be blessed' - and in the NT, St Paul, by semantic sophistry, tries to insist that this refers to Christ, rather than the Jewish people. You seem very glued to the idea that the Bible puts forward a totally consistent message - it doesn't, neither in the OT, nor the confused melee of quotation (often misquotation) and contrived exegesis apparent in the NT.
Which brings us back to the texts in Matthew, which you didn't really deal with in any satisfactory way. The narrative is very confused, and it is a wonder that Matthew himself seems to have made little attempt to iron out the contradictions. Maybe the Jewish references relate back to definitive memories of what the historical Jesus actually said, however inconvenient these may seem to M's other attempts to portray Jesus as having a universal message. There is certainly no indication in the texts I quoted to indicate that Jesus wished to reaffirm God's message to the Jews first, before his teaching should be spread to the wider world, especially (as in the text which Jack highlighted) it is clear that the Jesus quoted in these texts thought the whole system of things was about to be wound up, and there would therefore be no time for a more widespread mission.
Lastly, I can't for the life of me think how you can reconcile this text from Mat 15 with the idea that Jesus had a mission to spread his message to the whole world (he is speaking to the Canaanite woman - or Syro-Phoenician elsewhere):
[24] "He answered, "I was sent
ONLY to the lost sheep of the house of Israel."