Meanwhile, after the presidential campaign, and in Europe, the political elite, the unaffected and the fascist left think democracy is a shit idea because they lost
I'm sorry, could you give some examples of anybody in the political elite, the unaffected (do you mean disaffected?) or the "fascist" left who thinks democracy is a shit idea? I haven't seen anybody claim that in any serious way.
On the other hand, the president elect would not commit to respecting the result if he lost.
and they are vey, very bad losers.
Now you are doing exactly what the left did to Trump supporters. You are belittling their concerns. People are genuinely very frightened about what Trump might do.
If you are a Muslim or Mexican in the USA you are probably shitting yourself about deportation right now.
If you are gay and married, you are probably concerned that Trump will declare your marriage void.
If you are at all worried about climate change, you are probably scared that Trump will tear up the Paris agreement.
If you care about education, you are probably worried that the new Education secretary will declare creationism as science.
If you are poor and ill, you are probably worried about Trump eviscerating Obamacare.
People are not just poor losers, they are frightened.