Khatru, the ten commandments are general. Most kids do honour their parents. No of course they shouldn't honour a parent, like Josef Fritzl, who abuses them - though it can take a while for them not to, because children naturally think parents are right until they start to think for themselves, and abused children are brainwashed by their abuser.
Yes people who have broken commandments get to Heaven. We've all broken commandments! Hopefully we learn from our mistakes and resolve not to commit them again but we are likely to do something else. Heaven is not full of people who've never done anything wrong in their lives.
But it's full of people who've chosen the right god to worship?
Any belief system that ranks a paedophile who has raped innocent children the same as a newborn baby drawing its first breath has a problem. I use the term "ranked" to describe the fact that in a Christian's eyes, both newborn baby and paedophile are heading to hell unless they adopt "Christian truths"
Here's a scenario.........
Ten years down the line, our newborn baby is now a child who has fallen into the clutches of our paedophile. He tortures and rapes her while all the time she screams for him to stop. In the darkness of the room she is locked in, she prays to the Bible god to free her from this pain and suffering.
Sadly, no escape is forthcoming and month later, when the paedophile has tired of his captive, he explains that he is going to kill her. Yet again, she prays to the Bible god and yet again their is no answer. In her final, dying breath, she curses the god of the Bible.
The years roll on and our paedophile has enjoyed the company of many more children. Now they lie buried in unmarked graves while their families pray for their childrens safe return to this god who doesn't answer.
Then in later years and on his deathbed, the paedophile sees the error of his ways and prays to the Bible god pleading for mercy and forgiveness.
Just think how when you get to heaven you can stand beside the ex-paedophile and watch that little girl scream as she burns. What a day of rejoicing that will be, for in God's eyes she has earned her trip to hell and he has earned eternal reward.