Dear Sane,
I think there are, as Shaker has noted as regards Vlad's posts, a surfeit of isms. We seem to have multiple isms suggested for the opposite of materialism, when I don't think it is really clear anyone is such a thing.
We love our little labels but use them as if they are exhaustive descriptions of people rather than the roughest short hand. Better to talk to the person and not the ism.
Well I think I was talking to the person, that person being Rhiannon who I know is a very spiritual person, Rhiannon can find happiness in taking her dog for a walk, but that leaves me open to, does spiritual mean happy, we don't actively seek unhappy.
What I do know is, we are all spiritual animals, it is how we have evolved, when all our basic needs are met, we then go on to the spiritual, we have a friend in common who finds the spiritual in going at mach three with his beard on fire or just plucking away at his banjo ( I said plucking ) but the question remains, or questions, do we need material to achieve spiritual, is the sun on the back of your neck material, and is the spiritual experience, material?
And yes I do realise that I am probably talking to myself, what is spiritual, do we need the material to achieve spiritual.
Gonnagle.