Dear Gordon,
Actually I think there may be some truth in what Vlad is talking about, I have two friends ( no not you and Sane, I do have other friends
) both are atheist and both are the live and let live type or so they say, but in homosexual company they become very edgy, tripping over their own tongues, hell one time one of my mates was verbally attacked by a homosexual guy, he was accused of being patronising.
I think this is a real problem for homosexual people, people need to recognise that they have that little spark of homophobia inside them and address it, only then will they feel more comfortable in homosexual company.
And no, I am not saying that everyone has that little spark inside them, just that some people might be fooling themselves, also it is most definitely not just a religious issue.
Gonnagle.