Which is the one I live in. I've been to others and know a good many people from other societies, but don't make a point of bragging about it. When you talk about real life I'd have thought it obvious that people are going to base their views on their real lives which are lived in specific places at specific times in cultures with specific mores. You can discuss other places out of academic interest, I suppose, but if you don't live there it's not your life.
Unfortunately for you, Shakes, you live in an increasingly global society, in which competing values and ideas exist, and intrdependence on other parts of that global population are day-by-day occurrences
Embrace of diversity, tolerance of various minority groups, emphasis on across-the-board equality being just some of those areas.
OK, 'diversity and tolerance of various minority groups. I notice the use of 'various' - very telling. 'Emphasis on across-the-board equality ...', provided that you aren't an immigrant, Black/Hispanic/Native American, a Muslim, a Communist (historically), etc., [in the USA], Aborigine or Maori in Australia and New Zealand, etc. Remember that one of the key issues in our own EU referendum is over immigration.
These claims all sound excellent as sound-bites, but in reality they are often being observed in the breach - and by Governments and authorities no less than the public at large.
Now, before you run off on one of your accusations that I prefer non-developed nation societies, I will reiterate again that I am very privileged to live in the society in which I live, but also reiterate that it, like just about every aspect of life across the world, needs to improve. For instance, we like to claim that we have the best healthcare service in the world, yet it is creaking and groaning under the strain of an ever more elderly population and failures to address issues such as mental health and social care,the latter of which goes hand in hand with healthcare - other than in government and local authority spheres. I also live in a society were young people seem increasingly to treat their parents and grandparents with at best disrespect, and at worst sheer abusiveness; a society where people are increasingly trying to disprove John Donne's maxim that 'no man is an island, entire of itself, ...'.
In closing, my view is that 'society' - be that Western, Eastern, Northern or Southern - is flawed and broken. Some soceties are more flawed than others, some are more broken than others.