I wonder if anyone else saw the programme, "Just call me Martina", on BBC1 a few nights ago (and I note it is repeated tonight at 11.40pm)?
Martina Navratilova married her partner of six years about eighteen months ago. In the programme she talked about the prejudice she had faced when she was a young tennis player, all the adverse publicity and how some felt she wasn't a person you would allow to be around your daughters because she was a "pervert".
I was extremely moved by the programme because I remember very well how people talked about her, maybe thirty five years ago, calling her "ugly" and "a man". Yet she did nothing wrong, no-one knew anything about her private life then, she was young and seemed pleasant and gracious. I always admired her and found the remarks very unpleasant, they made me feel uncomfortable. Goodness knows how uncomfortable they made her feel!
She is a strong woman but admitted to how hurt she was at that time. She talked about being married and how important it was for her and her partner to be married, said it was so good, a relief, to be able to say, "I'm me, this is how I am. I'm married like everyone else". The legalisation of gay marriage was certainly a milestone (it is not legal in every state of America, Martina married in New York but could not have married in Florida, where they live).
Hearing Martina talk about what it meant to her brought it home to me how ridiculous, cruel even, society has been for years discriminating against gay couples like her and her partner. Using religion to back up personal prejudices is risible, the same old is routinely trotted out. Thankfully there are many people of faith who do not interpret the Bible so literally and feel quite differently; there are also those who are beginning to change their minds which isn't easy after years of being entrenched in a way of thinking. It takes courage to step out from the secure walls they've relied on for so long but it's happening.
It was a heartening programme.
(Naturally for me, afterwards, I thought, "I hope it lasts"
, but I would have thought that about a heterosexual couple getting married.)
(Pleased to hear about your daughter's exam grades bluehillside, excellent news.)