And you don't think the fact that the British people (well,the English people) have done something unutterably stupid is enough to be angry about?
I have a job that may go away if the economy tanks. I have young teenage relatives whose vista of opportunities have suddenly narrowed. When I go to Europe, which I do frequently, I now have to explain that I'm not a small minded Little Englander and neither are nearly half of my fellow countrymen.
Why isn't that enough to be angry about?
The English people just wanted to take control back from Brussels.
Commercial fishermen for example felt the EU has done enormous harm to our fishing stocks and an awful lot of fishermen voted leave for that reason.
The people who voted leave seem to want to be able to make our own trade deals with countries outside the EU.
For a while these choices will not be good for the UK and I'm sure we will struggle.
Businesses will need to adapt and find new opportunities.
But I think the leave supporters think the end result will at least be in the right direction.
One of my sons who is in his twenties is not impressed with us leaving the EU either, he tells me we will still have to abide by many of the rules to trade with the EU or to have a Norway type deal but have no say in its make up at all.
It is going to complicate things.
I'm not angry at leaving the EU, probably because my choice floated for a while between the leave and remain vote.
I could see perhaps we would have different opportunities under leave, and more choices in how we do things. The rest of my family wouldn't have been bothered if the Uk had the euro, but I'm a bit more traditionalist. I like the pound.
I like the idea of being more self determining, of being free to trade outside the eu on our own terms.
It has nothing to do with being a little Englander really, but about not having to do what is decided in Brussels.
I voted remain in the end because I didn't feel I knew enough about the EU, so it was a vote for the known.
I was unsure about its affect on expats for example, or on people that had moved here from the EU and started up businesses and settled.
It was to much a leap in the dark to get my vote ( I didn't really listen much to either side and still think in retrospect neither knew what would happen)
But now it has happened, I am thinking we need to make the most of the opportunities that arise because of it.
If the economy tanks a lot of us may lose our jobs.
All I can say is, my husband used to have a safe job at the bank and one day he chose to take a big risk by taking redundancy.
I was very concerned as my children were small and we relied on his income.
For a bit I was insecure. Especially as he had no new job and no income.
Then he applied for another job ( among many he didn't get) with more money and better prospects.
Had he always stayed in the safe job at the bank he would have ended up, because the job changed, working in a call centre. Even though he had a degree and diploma in computing.
Sometimes you have to take a risk to see the opportunity.
It can go badly wrong, but sometimes even when it goes wrong and you are made redundant it can be the most positive thing that has ever happened to you.
It's comfortable being stuck in a rut, but sometimes it pays to find the opportunities by not going for the safe option.
That's how I see us leaving now.
The EU was the safe rut, we have to find the opportunities created by us leaving it.
Like when my husband became redundant, things might get a bit tough, but we need to look for the opportunities to put us back on track, to being where we want to be.
That's why I'm not cross.
Who knows what opportunities might arise out of us " leaving the rut"
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