I am not even talking about hero worship. I am just talking about acknowledging that the person is greater than we are and that we cannot possibly achieve or do those things that he/she has done. Hurriedly pointing out the negatives of the person is a Ego position that becomes judgmental.
Hero worship is a Stage 1 (childish position). Judgmental criticism is a Stage 2 (adolescent) position. I am talking about trying to take a Stage 3 (mature) position.
You can't see it, in yourself.
Just by saying that "
acknowledging that the person is greater than we are and that we cannot possibly achieve or do those things that he/she has done. " you are lifting that person up and making them larger than life.
The next step is to stop being critical of their other ideas.
I'd disagree that " any person is greater than we are and that we cannot possibly achieve or do those things that he/she has done. "
We are ALL capable of what someone else has done, they get the credit for having done so, it's true.
They deserve that, but only that.
They are not divine and do not belong on a pedestal.
If they drank horse wee, it doesn't mean you need to.
It sounds silly, but some people do. Example : Mohammed believed it, so it must be true.
https://wikiislam.net/wiki/Camel_Urine_and_IslamThinking they have done something no other person can, is lifting them up, while finding an easy out for yourself.
The mature position is to recognise this, IMO and while recognising what they have done, also being aware they are no different to any other human being on the planet, warts and all.
They are not unique, other than we are all unique.
There is nothing one human being has done, that couldn't have been done by another, given the same opportunities or willingness.
Everyone, in existence is capable of much more than they think possible.
Give credit to actions by all means, I'm not against that, it's good for inspirational actions to inspire.
I'm against thinking somehow that person is above us, they are not.
Jimmy Saville is a good example of someone who did good things, who was revered, and people didn't like to challenge him.
Look at the fall he got from his pedestal.
Putting people on pedestals does away with our ability to see their faults, and everyone has faults.
A lot of faults don't hurt others, but some do.
Believing someone is above us in some way, can leave others vunerable, because we become blind.
IMO anyway.
The idea of a Guru doesn't appeal, no human being has all wisdom.
Some are wise in some respects but not in others and I believe you have to sort things out for yourself.
I'm sort of anti guru, Sriram.