Having read the Teapot thread I actually could not find an instance where a theist was saying that not being able to disprove God or Christianity means that God or Christianity becomes true for others.
The key point here is that the NPF has been used, where the precise wording depends how the person using the fallacy expresses it. However, when this is used in unfalsifiable claims involving divine agency the element (however expressed) that says along the lines of 'you can't show that I'm wrong' surely implies that from the point of view of the person using the fallacy no 'wrongness' can ever be demonstrated. In addition that the NPF being cited doesn't, as you suggest above, imply that God or Christianity has been 'disproved' - all it means is that the argument being advanced has failed because it is fallacious.
So if theists on here are not stating that being unable to disprove their beliefs means that their belief is true for you as well as them...
They are implying that, and in doing so they are possibly also committing another fallacy.
... but are saying ok I have nothing more than belief in subjective evidence that can neither be empirically tested or a probability as to its truth being assigned but you can't disprove it so I am going to carry on believing anyway, does anyone have a problem with that?
I wouldn't, since provided they aren't using the NPF by challenging others to show they are wrong then it is their subjective personal opinion that they are right and couldn't be shown to be wrong.
Is anyone adopting the position that if a theist cannot prove their particular concept of god that is the subject matter of their particular interpretation of their religion - the theist should not continue to hold their belief or try and influence others to adopt or share their belief? If yes, I'd ask why?
I'd say no: I think adults and families are entitled to hold and express whatever religious views they want provided it doesn't involve proselytising within the state education system.
I mean I'm fine with someone telling me I should not hold a particular belief - they are of course entitled to express their opinion since I have the freedom to ignore their opinion.
Of course, in a secular society it is essential that people are free to practice religion just as much as others being free from religion.
If they want to call me stupid for ignoring their opinion - that's fine too. But wondering if there are any atheists on here who really genuinely care if theists on this forum stop believing or if they are just here passing the time, enjoying themselves by pointing out there is no testable evidence for beliefs? Much like arguing for and against different morals or political positions or different shades of individualism.
All I can say is I am glad there are threads challenging theists to provide proof - I have learnt a lot about philosophy - Wiggs deserves a mention. Some of the atheists especially are good at explaining philosophy. Thanks. Enjoyable read. Would be really boring if the atheists left or the theists left and only one group was left. Will look in again when I get time.
I'm not looking to convert anyone, and in any event I've nothing to convert them too! I suspect that for the most part what people enjoy here is stimulating discussions on subjects that interest them: I've learned a great deal here from both theists and atheists and enjoyed the light-hearted element that is also part of this place
In the meantime if anyone has a link to a theist actually saying, as opposed to all this implying stuff, that if it can't be disproved it points to it being true for you please link to it. My understanding is they are saying they will carry on with their particular belief as true for them, but if you want and you can get past the lack of testable evidence, lack of definition of concepts, contradictions etc you can give their belief a go too.
You can only deal with fallacies in terms of how they are expressed and when it is clear a fallacy has been used it is reasonable to consider what is implied by that use. After all if someone says along the lines of 'I believe x (where x is a non-natural claim) and you can't show I'm wrong' surely implies, as noted earlier, that this someone considers that since they think they can't ever be shown to be wrong then they must be right - even so the NPF fallacy doesn't confirm that x is wrong: it just highlights that the argument being used fails because it contains reasoning errors.