Well, neither do I. But once somebody says, 'I see God's love in situation X', then surely they are faced with other questions about situations Y and Z. So once AB says that a child's birth is evidence of God, the questions are bound to come, e.g. about a child's death. If you say that God is not involved there, then that suggests that sometimes God is involved, and sometimes is not. OK. God is hit and miss.
I don't know how you feel about people giving personal examples, wigginhall, I'm reluctant to do that but this story came to mind and seems relevant:
My friend, Elaine, died aged 57. She had been diagnosed with advanced colorectal cancer fifteen months before.
She had two operations, lots of treatment, then she faded and died.
I was closely involved with her and her husband during Elaine's illness and remember her saying to me, "We've found out more about God's love during my illness than ever before".
Never forgotten that.