Are they really? I never thought of them like that, honestly. The white feather business was dreadful, how could anyone make a judgement about someone not in uniform.
My view was that white poppies were making a statement about being committed to peace and many people who survived combat felt the same, some even going as far as becoming pacifists. However my idea of wearing a white poppy was not about pacifism in every situation but because I believed if everyone committed to peace, more peaceful solutions would be found.
Oh well, white poppies are no longer around as far as I know so the situation doesn't arise but thanks for your opinions. I wish SteveH would comment on this thread because he knows more about it than I. Not a big deal though, I'm sure you know I didn't intend any offence to anyone - still not sure that white poppies are offensive but you said so and wouldn't have without good reason.
Found this wiki article:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/White_poppyIt seems I wasn't being insulting by wearing a white poppy and there is nothing wrong with them!
I thought so but being as it was years ago and I am by nature a bit vague about some things, I presumed you had done some research.
Still hope SteveH comes on with his opinion though he may not care one way or 't'other.
I will buy two red poppies, as I do every year, one of which I will wear until it falls off and the other for the old man who always loses it in five minutes. If I see a white poppy on sale I'll wear both.
We used to have a British Legion club down the road to us which was quite a good social club by all accounts, my neighbours used to go but we never got around to it. It is now an extremely nice and useful Co-op, which I do go to, including this morning (no leftover pumpkins for me to make soup today)! Years ago I imagine they would have had information about the different poppies and the Wiki article says that the BL see no conflict between wearing both.