ipster,
Again, brexit leave or remain supporters will never agree, it won't happen it must be one of the most contentious subjects I've ever known in my lifetime, it's possible we might agree about that.
Forget for a minute whether leaving is a good idea or a bad one and think about the referendum itself. We're told to treat it as a great exercise in democracy, and so it should be honoured come what may. To the contrary though, the exercise was such a corrupt one that, if it was an election for a parish council, it would be revoked and run again. Why?
1. Because few if any of the promises and statements made by the leave campaign were true. There never was £350m per week for the NHS, the German car industry never was going to tell Merkel what to do, the first negotiation never would have been in Berlin, there was no possibility of cherry picking from the four freedoms, there never was a technical solution to the Irish border problem, we could never have stayed in the customs market or in the singe market with the terms Farage et al demanded. You may have forgotten that pointing these things out was described at the time a "project fear", and now - incredibly - leave ministers are arguing instead that we knew all along we were voting to be worse off.
2. The leave campaign broke electoral funding law on at least two occasions, and there are serious questions still about some £7m of funding in respect of which all the records seem mysteriously to have disappeared. We have election funding rules for a reason, and yet somehow we're supposed it seems just to ignore that they were broken.
3. The question was so vaguely worded that no matter which of the various versions of it there could be - inside the single market/outside the single market, with a deal/ without a deal etc - each ignoramus, liar or vested interest merchant who argues for one of them will also claim "and that's what 17m people voted for". Necessarily, that cannot be true.
So no, I for one cannot be part of "bringing the country together" when my and, more importantly, my children's futures in Europe have been stolen from us by a corrupt process we're told we must respect for some reason.