Ipster,
Don't think there was a need for this post of your's Blue virtually the whole of the news media that might just as well be a bunch of clones with their clone like statements they keep on banging out and they're using as near as dam it the same wording as this post of yours more or less on a daily basis.
You've got to be kidding right? Time and again idiots (Francois, Raab et al) or outright liars (Johnson and half his hard right-leaning cabinet) say the most preposterous things on TV and radio and rarely if ever do they get a, "but hang on - that's clearly wrong isn't it because..." in reply. Only this morning I heard John Redwood on radio 4 telling us we should be concentrating on how we're going to spend all that money we won't have to pay any more to the EU. Yet if I said you should stop going to the car boot sale on a Sunday because you'd save the £20 entrance fee even the most dimwitted would say, "yes but what about the £200 you won't make any more because you won't be at the market?", yet challenge came there none.
There are some good journalists asking why the emperor has no clothes (Carole Cadwalladr at the Guardian, James O'Brien at LBC) but they're few and far between. It's precisely because so much of the press has been asleep at the wheel that the con men and incompetents have got away with so much.
The only answer to this impasse I think was the referendum.
There wasn't an impasse to be answered before the referendum. It was called because Cameron was running scared of UKIP's success and wanted to stem the loss of votes to them in the next GE. The referendum we did have though was so corrupt - false prospectus, illegal funding, meaningless question - that had it been for the local parish council it would have been voided and re-run, let alone not allowed to stand for a hugely important decision like Brexit.
We'll never agree on this one.
Yes we will, but only when it's too late to do anything about it. When you survey the wreckage of the country we once had and finally concede that Brexit was a disaster then, but only then, will you concede that you made a terrible mistake. Problem is, by then it'll all be too late to do much about it. Then the options would be to continue driving the beaten-up banger down the road, or to apply to rejoin on much, much worse terms than we have now.
And who will the Johnsons, Raabs, Ree-Moggs, Farages, Davies's, Javid's and the rest blame when these options arise? Themselves? Oh no, not at all - it'll all be the fault of the "remoaners" who didn't have enough "faith in the project", who "talked the country down", who "lost but didn't get over it" etc. Never mind that the unicorns were never real - just blame the people who told you they weren't real.
Project fear eh? Project understatement more like.