I'll say again, our population were so divided on brexit neither side would be accepting the others arguments, whatever said, so the only way around this impasse was to have a referendum and I must admit I too would have felt very bitter and let down if remain had won the day.
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That is plain wrong: there was no widespread public pressure for an EU referendum.
The only pressure was coming from the lunatic fringe of the Tory party and David Cameron was daft enough to concede them a referendum, no doubt to shut them up, if he won a majority in the 2015 general election: he, quite possibly, imagined there would be another pact with the Lib Dems, but he did win a majority and had painted himself into a corner.
He could, of course, have ignored them, and if he had then we wouldn't be in this mess now.