You've also missed two scenarios.
7. There is a god, but there is no heaven or hell, everybody just dies and that is it.
8. Everybody goes to heaven.
I'll go with Jeremy's number 8.
No one deserves ' eternal' torture IMO.
Eternal is an awfully long time, when our lives are so short.
Plus people are not born equal.
Some people are born without empathy or are terribly damaged themselves.
The whole idea of eternal punishment is so unfair and horrible and out of proportion it doesn't make much sense.
Why damn some poor tortured soul, (who may have been abused and not had a good life) for eternity, because they couldn't take any more and ended it?
If there is a heaven, everyone should be able to get there, at some point.
Especially if someone believes in the Christian God.
Love your enemy, forgiveness being a virtue, not judging.......
Why is it, so many Christians think their God doesn't follow his own suggestions?
God ought to love and forgive even Satan, ultimately?
It's one of those conflicts in Christianity that doesn't make sense.
You are asked to display qualities the Christian God doesn't appear to have.......
Not by listening to some of his believers, anyway.