The kids love the Kirk visits - 'cos our kirk sits in the middle of a historic graveyard, and it might seem 'spooky'. When they come inside, usually the minister - dressed in civvies - (possibly leathers, because our minister's an aging biker) and myself will do the tour. It's an access all areas - pupils are sometimes encouraged to make paper planes and throw them from the pulpit.....they seem to like the visits, for some reason........ Obviously we encourage such visits, as does the local school. Opportunities for Christian witness exist outside the educational system, and whether or not kids attend is purely up to the parents. That's the way it should be, IMHO. Back to SSM. The mainstream Christian view - that, for the Christian, marriage can only be between a man and a woman, is one I support - there is no evidence in Scripture to gainsay it, and much to affirm it. However, whilst maintaining this stance, the Church should not be imposing it on those who do not share its' faith.