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To whom do you owe a debt of gratitude?
« on: January 16, 2017, 11:26:17 AM »
Most of us have someone to whom we owe a debt of gratitude. I have told my story before, but as I am so grateful I am going to repeat it.

I owe my life to a very brave lady, Myra Gallienne, who with be 100 in August. When I was two years old, in 1952, I started walking up the long drive of our property to look at the horse and cart parked beside one of our fields my father had rented to a local farmer and his wife. A low flying aircraft startled the horse and it bolted towards me. 'Auntie' Myra was packing tomatoes in the packing shed, (my father was a horticulturalist who grew tomatoes and flowers, Auntie Myra was one of his staff). Very bravely she ran towards me and the bolting horse, picked me up and ran back towards the house, we fell through the door just as my mother opened it, the horse and cart passed us with only about 6 inches to spare. It was stopped by a high wall at the end of our property. The horse was shot by my father, it couldn't be calmed down and was a danger. The elderly farmer and his wife had fallen through the shafts of the cart on which they were sitting on it at the time of the incident. They weren't run over by the wheels but the farmer never got over the shock, and died of a heart attack not long after.

Without the bravery of that little lady who is only 4' 8" tall, I would not be alive to tell the tale.

THANK YOU AUNTIE MYRA


I phone Auntie Myra on a regular basis, and tell her that she is famous as I keep posting her story on the Internet, it has also been published over the years in newspapers and magazines too. This pleases her so much. :) I also tell her how very cross I will be with her if she dies before her 100th birthday, which makes her giggle. Some of her immediate family, of whom she is the last member, have nearly made their century but not quite. I have asked her what she would like to do on her special day and offered to set up a sky diving session followed by swimming with sharks. I believe that was done by a South African woman centenarian a few years ago. Auntie Myra is considering my offer. ;D

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Re: To whom do you owe a debt of gratitude?
« Reply #1 on: January 16, 2017, 12:17:05 PM »
I've a close friend that I'm so grateful for. I don't owe her a debt exactly because we support each other. But I'm so thankful to have her.

I also had a relationship with a bloke after my marriage broke up. He gave me faith again - in myself mostly - and although it didn't work out I'm incredibly grateful to him.

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Re: To whom do you owe a debt of gratitude?
« Reply #2 on: January 16, 2017, 12:24:41 PM »
Those are both heartwarming stories.

I have to be completely honest here and say that I owe my husband, John, a debt of gratitude.  Naturally enough I don't always let him know that I feel that way  :D but he is one in a million and the only person who truly knows me inside and out, and puts up with me.

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Re: To whom do you owe a debt of gratitude?
« Reply #3 on: January 16, 2017, 01:38:39 PM »
Those are both heartwarming stories.

I have to be completely honest here and say that I owe my husband, John, a debt of gratitude.  Naturally enough I don't always let him know that I feel that way  :D but he is one in a million and the only person who truly knows me inside and out, and puts up with me.

Gordon Bennett, I am feeling teary now, better go and have some lunch.

My husband has put up with me for nearly 48 years of marriage, I doubt anyone else would have done the same. Mind you I have put up with him too! ;D

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Re: To whom do you owe a debt of gratitude?
« Reply #4 on: January 16, 2017, 03:31:16 PM »
Nobody is perfect but I imagine you have been a good companion, floo.
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Re: To whom do you owe a debt of gratitude?
« Reply #5 on: January 16, 2017, 05:02:03 PM »
Nobody is perfect but I imagine you have been a good companion, floo.

We have a different sort of relationship to most as we have absolutely nothing in common except our kids, but it seems to work for us.

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Re: To whom do you owe a debt of gratitude?
« Reply #6 on: January 16, 2017, 05:35:55 PM »

My children!

Without them I would have topped myself years ago!
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Re: To whom do you owe a debt of gratitude?
« Reply #7 on: January 16, 2017, 05:55:01 PM »
Yes, I understand that, Owl.

People often talk about what they do for their kids but I honestly believe children give a tremendous amount to their parents, quite naturally, just by being themselves and lovely.  They bring out the best in us.

I mentioned my husband first and foremost because I haven't been easy to live with over the years and he has learned to understand me (up to a point), love me unconditionally and has much patience.
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« Reply #8 on: January 17, 2017, 10:02:30 AM »
The couple that ran a support group for those of us that want to adopt children, we managed to get our first son eleven months after joining that enlightened group.

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Re: To whom do you owe a debt of gratitude?
« Reply #9 on: January 17, 2017, 02:14:01 PM »
That is lovely, ippy.
I imagine you as having a lovely family;  (I am an adopted child so know something about it).
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Re: To whom do you owe a debt of gratitude?
« Reply #10 on: January 17, 2017, 04:14:14 PM »
That is lovely, ippy.
I imagine you as having a lovely family;  (I am an adopted child so know something about it).

The only set back with my two boys is that I had to tell them when they were younger that they're, obviously, not genitically related to my wife and I and they therfore couldn't expect to be quite so good looking when they grow up.

They both have surprised us and they both make us look like a pair of dwarfs, good looking dwarfs of course.

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Re: To whom do you owe a debt of gratitude?
« Reply #11 on: January 17, 2017, 04:17:08 PM »
My mother and my wife. I would be not be the person I am without my mother. I would not be here without my wife

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Re: To whom do you owe a debt of gratitude?
« Reply #12 on: January 17, 2017, 05:26:46 PM »
Yes, I understand that, Owl.

People often talk about what they do for their kids but I honestly believe children give a tremendous amount to their parents, quite naturally, just by being themselves and lovely.  They bring out the best in us.

I mentioned my husband first and foremost because I haven't been easy to live with over the years and he has learned to understand me (up to a point), love me unconditionally and has much patience.
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Re: To whom do you owe a debt of gratitude?
« Reply #13 on: January 17, 2017, 06:06:52 PM »
It has been quite interesting during the last couple of days thinking through my life to see if there is anyone to whom I owe a debt of gratitude. And right up to this very minute I would have written that there is not one. However, I have now thought of one! The Rehab Officer who came to see me when my
last remaining focal vision went. She saw immediately that I needed practical, useful info so that I could remain efficiently independent. She was brilliant.

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Re: To whom do you owe a debt of gratitude?
« Reply #14 on: January 17, 2017, 06:14:03 PM »
Another debt of gratitude I owe is to our children who have been so supportive since my husband's illness and subsequent brain damage. They ensure I don't screw up too badly.

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Re: To whom do you owe a debt of gratitude?
« Reply #15 on: January 17, 2017, 07:56:36 PM »
Another debt of gratitude I owe is to our children who have been so supportive since my husband's illness and subsequent brain damage. They ensure I don't screw up too badly.
Just -  'badly'?  ;)
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