I think people have given up trying to have meaningful conversations with "theists" about anything, they just put their fingers in their ears and shout loudly "la la la".
I think theists too have given up talking to non theists, after all when did you last see anyone with a Jesus Saves sandwich board on a street corner or have one knock at your door unbidden.
It is a shame perhaps but these two tribes have no point of contact for meaning full conversation.
The only people I know who ever go to church do so only under pressure to attend weddings, funerals, etc. And then only for social reasons.
And as for Islam no - one discusses anything connected with belief with them out of fear of reprisal.
A shame maybe? buts that's the way it is heading.
Any attempt at compromise is pointless and doomed to failure.